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<![CDATA[Come on its way late in the game, be real, realistic, employed, financially good, truely desire someone to share life with, tired of the games, lies, gimmicks, be REAL! ... ABSOLUTELY NO WEBSITES, PRON, ETC., IF INTERESTED LEAVE AGE, DISCRIPTION/PICTURE AND TELL ME MORE ABOUT YOU AND WHAT YOU SEEK? LETS TALK!]]>

<![CDATA[Hello, I am 48, widowed, 5'7" barefoot, blonde and 128 pounds. I would like to meet someone who is at least 5'10 and enjoys movies, dinners (I am a great cook) and some fun and laughter. I am not looking for NSA sex...I am looking for someone to connect with, not looking for marriage...just someone with similar interests and who is not afraid to laugh at himself.]]>

<![CDATA[I'm looking to meet someone Nice n Clean, Self-Motivated, Tall 6'0' Or Taller, Handsome MAN! YES, MAN! NO - he/she's!! I am 5'5", Long Black Hair, Big Pretty Brown Eyes, Full Size Lips and I am half Mexican / half Philipino. I love a man to handle me with care, sometimes Gentle other times Rough..... If you'd like to just hangout and see where it goes from there, Shoot me an email along with Your STATS and A PICTURE! I will only reply if you send a PICTURE! xoxo ~]]>

<![CDATA[So I am looking for a descent guy,One who has a sense of humor and sarcasm but still knows how to be nice,respectful,and a complete gentlemen.Now I am not skinny,so if that is what you are looking for I am sure that you will have luck elsewhere. PLEASE no on over 21...thank you. ]]>

<![CDATA[Well, I've tried this before, never been too successful. I am a young, white, curvy, sexy, wild, female in b-town. Live alone, work full-time, very independent. My type: White (sorry, just my attraction), taller than I (5'6"), SiNgLe!, good moral character, I like "manly men" (oilfield, mechanic, etc). Anyways, I am looking for a close friend w/benefits. I work a lot, live alone, so someone that wants to kick it once a week or more would be ideal. I a 420 friendly, and ideally you would be too lol. Not really looking to be in a relationship right now, but I don't just want a one time thing; so please don't ask lol. It is very important to me that you are single/available.. I'm not a homewrecker lol. Not looking for anyone over 30, sorry :-( So, if you think you can fulfill my "needs" lol then shoot me a message. Please respond with a pic if you want to be taken seriously. Lets not be fools, we know that physical attraction is a huge factor, but don't be shy! Please put some thought into your responses, first impressions mean everything. P.S. Position requires a lot of stamina. ;-)]]>

<![CDATA[hi im 18...6ft and about 145lbs and yes i dont care about saying my weight..... im tired of finding the wrong guys so help me out plz...im looking for a guy who is 18 to 25....i just want a sweet guy who knows how to treat me right.....i like to ride dirt bikes and be outdoors....i like to cuddle on the couch every once in awhile to....if u want to know more feel free to ask....hope to hear from u..... MUST LIVE WITH IN RIDGECREST AREA....UNLESS WILLING TO TRAVEL TO ME...]]>

<![CDATA[What happened to the good old days when men were old school and understand that they should open the door for a woman, pull out her chair at a restraunt, walk on the side of the road with traffic? What about when a pickup line was hello, how are you today? would you like to go out sometime? instead of whats up baby can i get them digits? This world is insane with divorce and break up partially because relationships are not valued like they should be. I want someone who is old school and believes in the old school ways of a successful relationship, but at the same time is not stuck in the old school mentality that a woman has to do whatever, think whatever, and act however the man says she should. I need someone in my life who can understand a woman who has ambition and drive and is willing to build me up not tear me down, I prefer someone who doesnt have children under 18 because there tends to be alot of baby mama drama associated with that even if it is not intended to be, but i dont have a problem with children - i love children..but the mother and father would have to be completely seperated and have very lil contact with each other. I need a man who is a hard worker and understands how important it is to have work ethic, also someone who is open to a growing future with someone i.e. marriage, maybe children, buying things together, living together, etc. I need someone who is goal oriented but family oriented as well and not afraid to live there lives to the fullest. He should be wise, intelligent, moralistic, passionate, faithful, and most of all be able to be loved completely by a woman, not be resistant to the caring a woman provides and be able to give genuine caring in return. If you are not genuinly a meat and potatoes kind of man and like the voulumptous curves of a full figured woman there is no need to apply. I would be surprised if the man i seek is really out there because he is rare, even with the lil i have posted. I am a rare woman, i am old school in most respects but new school enough to like some modern music, that is not degrading woman or using there bodies as a target of tasteless lust. I like the new styles of dress and some of the new language. Thats about as in-touch as i am with the modern world.. i like the sanctuary of a 1 partner relationship so i stay away from the worlds influence. I guess thats it for now.. if you like what you read and fit the description, drop me a line and i will get back to you asap. YOUR PIC GETS MINE PLEASE NO BOTS, SPAM, PORN SITES, EMPTY LINKS ETC.. PLEASE NO RESPONSES FROM PEOPLE WHO WANT TO PLAY PHONE, OR EMAIL TAG FOREVER.. GOD BLESS!!]]>

<![CDATA[My name is Nell, I'm a 23 year old girl looking for new friends with potential for more. I'd like to meet someone I could go to concerts/shows in town or out of town with, someone that's equally cool with nights out and nights in on the couch watching movies or marathoning shows like Sons of Anarchy. Since I'm a sneaky little bitch, to let me know you actually read what I wrote here, make sure your first sentence in your reply is "Mommy, can I go out and kill tonight?". Drug use isn't tolerated, and I'm not much of a drinker either, though I don't care if you do, as long as you're not getting drunk. I like to think of myself as equal parts punk, jock, and geek, with equal love for mosh pits, Yankees games, and Final Fantasy video games and Neil Gaiman books. Upcoming plans for me include seeing Bad Religion in LA on the 25th and Reel Big Fish at B Ryder's on the 28th, so if you're down for either of those things, definitely hit me up.]]>

<![CDATA[LOOKING FOR AN AFRICAN AMERICAN MALE, 5'7" AND OVER, 43YRS TO 50YRS, MEDIUM BUILD. LETS BE FRIENDS FIRST THEN WE'LL GO FROM THERE. IF YOUR LOOKING FOR JUST SEX DON'T BOTHER CALLING ME AND WASTING MY TIME. TO BE HONEST I WANT A FRIENDSHIP TO TURN INTO A BOYFRIEND GIRLFRIEND RELATIONSHIP. I WANT A MAN WHO CAN TAKE CARE OF ME BUT NOT CONTROL ME. I AM A 43 YR OLD SINGLE WHITE FEMALE. I'M 5'7", GREEN EYES, LONG BLOND HAIR, MEDIUM BUILD. I LIKE TO DANCE, GO FOR WALKS, DRINK A LITTLE, ENJOY NATURE AND ENJOY BEING OUTSIDE. CALL MY CELL AND LETS TALK ABOUT IT. BRENDA CELL FOUR NINE SIX ZERO FOUR SEVEN NINE ]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for a no games guy who is funny, professional, open minded and loves animals! It would be best if you were near my age younger!!! ;~) as long as you are professional and serious about dating and finding a real woman!! Do you love coming to Pismo to visit? Wish you had a girl to hang out with??? I am in my 40's and self employed with lots of time to spend with the right man. I am best described as down to earth, funny, caring and open minded. I am looking for a partner to travel with cook with and kiss.....(must be a good kisser) Please send a pic and tell me a little about yourself I am 5'7" and curvy....If you don't have a passion for curvy/healthy women then don't bother. Please put "pismo beach" in subject line.... Thanks! Lets do this!! I have real pics!!!]]>

<![CDATA[I am looking for a man between 50-60 years old that exudes confidence and can still be gracious. I want someone that will be there in mind, body, and soul. A good conversation goes a long way. If you come with a lot of drama please pass me by. Please be SINGLE (not married with problems, girlfriend, or getting divorced) I will not be the other woman. I am looking for a relationship not a one night stand or FWB. I only mention this because I cannot believe the bad language and nasty/perverted suggestions men my age are making on CL! So if that's your thing, well, it's not mine so don't waste your time or mine.I love to listen to music (especially outdoors), go to plays and concerts, and challenge myself on the dance floor. If you have your own hobbies, and can open me up to new experiences this will be a plus. Feel free to tell me about yourself and what you like; I'm sure there's no one as unique as you...]]>

<![CDATA[I am very depressed since I need to pay my bills NOW. and I don't even have money for food. I am a writer/healer. A published author from China, now living in Hollywood. I also have a screenplay/book which need to be SOLD. ]]>

<![CDATA[Looking for a good man that has everything, but a good woman! ... that takes care of themselves and want's to have fun and be happy for EVER ... Pretty simple! give me your discription, tell me more about you and what you seek? lets talk! (REAL MEN ONLY!!!) PLEASE BE REAL AS I AM, NO LIES, GAMES OR GIMMICKS! NO WEBSITES, SPAM, PORN, BOY TOYS, GIGOLOS, ROLE PLAY, ETC.]]>

<![CDATA[ My name is Sara Shalda......... I am a multiple world champion horse trainer (NSBA AQHA aPHA IBHA APHA NRHA) kind soft patient & respectful.... looking for a really good male horse trainer to meet etc. I need somone who can relate to what I do for a living and help me do it even better. I am originally from Michigan and will be returning to Michigan in April. Age/ethnicity/religion not important. Google me - CHAT with me on facebook or see my webisite to learn more about who I am & what I do. I am 41 hallf cherokee / half Bohemian Sara Shalda sarashaldaperformancehorses . c o m sarashalda at a o l . c o m call my cell - leave message.]]>

<![CDATA[My name is Andrea, I'm 24 years old and I'm just looking for someone to chat with and get to know, I'm really bored right now and nobody is online to talk with. I'm wanting to meet someone new, get to know them then maybe hang out in person. I have yim and msn messengers, I have a built in webcam for video chat, I have a mic for voice chat. You don't have to have a webcam or mic. I don't really want your pictures right now, I just wanna chat and get to know you for you, I am not interested in looks. I think personality is more important, looks come second. Please don't ask me for a picture, webcam is FACE shots only so if you ask to see other things you will be blocked cause I don't do dirty things on cam. Don't push to see the cam either or you will be blocked. Please Don't Reply if you are not between the ages of 24 and 30. Thanks talk to you soon Andrea ]]>

<![CDATA[Do you believe that we can love more than one person, or at least have a meaningful relationship with more than one person? Do you believe its hard for one person to fulfill all your needs? Perhaps you have a long distance relationship with someone but still need someone to hang out with and do things locally. I would like to find someone who is interested in the type of relationship where one can be involved with more than one person but everyone is honest about it. If you believe this or are interested please read on. About me: I am a kind, affectionate, and some times quirky 30 year old female. I work in the helping people field and am going to school also. I have been told I am a good conversationalist although I prefer one on one talks to large groups. I have lots of love to give and need someone else in my life to do things with and for. I am attracted to men who are smart, helpful, protective, and dominant. I like men who are older than myself so 30's, 40's, but not men in their 20's. I am especially attracted to black men but if you meet the other qualities that is not required just a bonus. This is not the same as a no-strings attached relationship, or a hook-up. If that was all I wanted there is another section for that. Well anyway if you are interested and want to know more send me an email with a little bit about you and what interests you about this type of relationship. Emails full of bad grammar, only one sentence, or with pictures of your cock, will not be answered.]]>

<![CDATA[Im just looking for a friend and someone to chat and trade pics with me.... *This is NOT spam*]]>

<![CDATA[I do truly miss you You opened it. Good luck. Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they love you. Something good will happen to you at 1:00 pm to 4:40 pm tomorrow, it could be anywhere. Tonight at midnight they will remember how much they loved you. You will get the shock of your life tomorrow, a good one. If you break the chain, you will be cursed with relationship problems for the next 2 years. Karma. If there is someone you once loved, or still do, and cant get them out of your mind, repost this in another city within the next 5 minutes. Its amazing how it works.If you truly miss someone, a past love, and cant seem to get them off your mind....then repost this titled as " I Truly Do Miss You" Whoever you are missing will surprise you. Dont break this, for tonight at midnight, your true love will realize they love you and something great will happen to you tomorrow ]]>

<![CDATA[I've been told that I look like Patricia Arquette. I am educated with a masters degree, have an amazing job, very involved in the community, never been married and no kids! I am in serious need of someone that knows how to have a great time! If you are a quality dude and interested in getting to know a quality chick, send me a message--let's chat!]]>

<![CDATA[My name is Danielle. Im currently attending cal state. I have a really busy schedule right now so it makes it hard to get to know any guys. Im 5'6, blonde/ brunette, with an athletic build. Im just looking for someone who's a down to earth guy that likes to have fun, and doesn't like to play games. Ive been been stepped on to many times by guys. If your interested e-mail me with a pic.]]>

<![CDATA[If you lift weights in your garage while you drink beer, women aren’t going to like you. If you watch NASCAR with your hand in your pants, women aren’t going to like you… If you take a woman out to dinner and request to share the meal, women aren’t going to like you… If you are married and strolling craigslist for other women, women aren't going to like you... Maybe women just don't like you...]]>

<![CDATA[Me: fun-loving, witty, intelligent, sensitive & caring, curvy lady, 5' 4", caucasian, loves the outdoors, being active, relaxing with a good movie and an ok bottle of wine, lol... You: tell me about yourself and I will decide. Pics get priority. ;) Looking to meet someone who cares about family, friends, and who they're with. I love to spend an evening cuddled on the couch, but home-bodies who want to be alone (not alone together) ALL the time are not my style. I am gregarious, independent yet love spending time with my friends & fam. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hi, I am looking for REAL men to either to talk on the phone or hang out. I am NOT looking for sex. I prefer someone who is at least 30 +, has a REAL job, REAL car and most importantly a REAL personality! I am not interested in exchanging pics, so please do NOT ask! I am a caramel black woman who is 5'5'' drk hair, drk eyes, caramel comp and full-figured........If you are serious type Lady in the subject line. :) ]]>

<![CDATA[i am 28, i have had fun... im interested in more substance than a 1 night stand, now. i can get toys to do the job of a penis if need be... the companionship that comes along with a penis (and the penis) is what i want. ]]>

<![CDATA[hey guys just looking for a decent guy to get to know and eventually hang out with. if interested send me a message with a pic thanks]]>

<![CDATA[41 yr old pretty BBW looking for a man in his 40’s to enjoy “spiritual intimacy” with. You must be single (NO MARRIED!), verifiable, and be able to host at your place. No lies or secrets between us for I enjoy tantric love-making; both of us must be forthright and positive in order to connect intimately. I won’t waste time with email correspondence so please send your photo and contact # in the first email. Also, if you haven't practiced tantric love-making before I will take you through the experience.]]>

<![CDATA[ I am a very caring person! all i ask for is honesty and if your looking for just a hit it and quit it type thing [x] out of this right now. I am looking for a frienship at first but I do want it to become more serious. If your interested just hit me up=] I wont bite. ]]>

<![CDATA[ I choose to believe that chivalry is not dead, even though I have seen much to alter this belief. I refuse to accept that there are no good guys left because I know although hard to find, it is worth the time and effort of looking for that needle in the haystack. Email me, I promise you wont regret it. ]]>

<![CDATA[ What I'm looking for: Someone not here to play games, Someone that is actually looking to meet someone not to see how many people I can have on my favorites list. Someone smart,funny,ambititous, someone that doesnt take everything serious. ]]>

<![CDATA[ looking for friends and see what goes from their. I love the outdoors and things like having a cookout, going on a hike if i ever have time anymore. I hate people that lie and cheat, and I love to laugh and have a good time. If you want to know more just ask. ]]>

<![CDATA[This mite be funny but Im looking for a date for my class reunion. The guy need to be in between 28-39. ]]>

<![CDATA[.singel 25 year old mom looking for love, 18 and up please opened minded and love the out door's looking for some one who's out going, loving, and caring and no game's please. if that's you please hit me up with a pic and ill get back at you. thank's ]]>

<![CDATA[ I'm really random most of the time- I love watching movies, hanging out with a few good friends, going out to eat or cooking out at someones house, listening to ALL types of music ( I love music), taking random road trips, just driving ( when gas isn't too insane), reading trashy books and magazines... I'm just really laid back and more comfortable around a small group of people rather than large crowds. I am on here in the hopes of finding my better half. ]]>

<![CDATA[I decided to make a list of all of the bad qualities I could think of about myself… if you think you can handle all of the bad things then I might reward you with all the good things… My bad qualities: -I can burn rice like nobody’s business. -I can be grumpy when I am tired. -I am sometimes too nice. -I don’t know how to say no. -I don’t share my feelings when I probably should. That’s all I can think of for now… If I think of any others I’ll update this. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a sexy, mature, educated, drama free woman looking for a man to show me a good time. I like going on vacations, trying new foods and sports, and I like to drink. Wine, dine, 69 me, and take me shopping! I am 5'6, 130 lbs, blonde, green eyes. Send me a pic.]]>

<![CDATA[I am looking for someone who is comfortable around children and willing to be in a relationship with someone who has children. I am looking for a mature man who knows how to be a gentleman. I am an independent person and don't need someone to take care of me, just someone to share my time with. I want someone who is driven, appreciates what life has to offer, and makes family a priority. I do not want to 'jump' right into another relationship, but I am interested in someone who has the time to date and really interested in long term, not just see how many dates he can find via here. I need a relationship based around strong friendship, not sex. Sex can't sustain a relationship (no matter how good it is). I want to be with someone who will share in my interests as well as teach me new things. Someone who I think about all day and can't wait to see, but feel comfortable that they are faithful when we are apart. Someone who wants to experience new things and has the drive and desire to make a better life for himself and has his life together. Someone who knows what it is to be romantic and affectionate. ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a single 40 year old BBW.........I am a big girl.........very lonely..........I am divorced............I have 2 children.............12 and 9............I am looking for a long term relationship.............not really looking for marraige...........but..........just the same.......but without the piece of paper.........I am funny at times..........very reliable.........faithful to the end............mature.........but I know how to laugh.............I don't lie.........I am looking for a guy who excepts me as I am and that would not try to change me into someone else............I am looking for a mature man.........looks are not as important as reliability and hard working.............but I do like tall guys..........if interested...............please send me a line.............thx...........................................Lisa]]>

<![CDATA[I am in a marriage that I cannot get out of at the moment. I am looking for a professional sweet man that I can spend time with at your home (after I get to know you a little) hang out and watch a movie, talk, maybe someone to take a walk with, ride bikes or go to the gym. ]]>

<![CDATA[ I'm looking for an honest man who can appreciate me and all my quirks. Someone who makes me laugh. Someone that I can have fun with, whether it's going out or staying in and cooking dinner together. Someone I just click with and hopefully it goes somewhere. Email me if you want to get to know me more. ]]>

<![CDATA[Hello there. I am stuck working a 12 hour graveyard shift tonight and I am looking for an insomniac to help me survive it. I am just looking for someone to talk to, either through email or AIM. If you have AIM feel free to message me, my SN is TwoBrattie. A little about me: My name is Keisha. I am white. I have red hair and green eyes. I am 20 years, and I would prefer to talk to someone around my age.]]>

<![CDATA[ i believe a man should be a man and a woman a woman. i like when guys plan the dates and there is still romance! i hate "gangsters". grow up. life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile. that said, send me a message!! ]]>

<![CDATA["I am an avid horseback rider and work at the movie theatre. It's a crap job, but it pays. I got out of a serious relationship a few months ago and I really don't want anything serious for a while. i would definitely some new guys though."]]>

<![CDATA["About me. I am a very happy person who does not like to hang with old people, or people who act old.I am looking for someone to hangout with, maybe even friends with benifits. I am not looking for anything long term, I went down that road and never want to do it again."]]>

<![CDATA[How to lose a guy in 10 days… Well, I’m probably not going to give you a “love fern”, tell you “I love you” on the second date, and buy matching outfits for us to wear all around town… But… I’m probably going to sometimes over think things, occasionally be insecure, and never share my feelings… I’m probably not going to give you an in depth overview of my past relationships, ask for an overview from you on your past relationships, and analyze our relationship based on these overviews… But… I probably will try to nurture you (even if you don’t want me to), by cooking wonderful meals for you, cleaning your house while scantily clad, rubbing your sore, tired muscles after a long day of work, and any other various smothering type action… I might sometimes need a lot of attention and other times not so much. I might try to hang out with you a lot or not at all. I might be a crazy, naughty, wild thing in the bedroom making sure you are completely and entirely satisfied or ask that you just hold me… One thing that I know for sure is that no matter how good or bad things are going, I will find a way to intentionally sabotage any kind of blossoming relationship we might have, without resorting to infidelity… ]]>

<![CDATA[I am a lady that loves to have fun, adventuresome when I want to be, open-minded about new experiences. I am very young for my age. I am seeking an unattached man who is also young at heart, active and has his life together. I'm a reasonably educated, intelligent, professional attractive black lady, 5'4", in good health and have been complimented for my happy smile and charming eyes. I am an ballroom dancer, gardener and (till I win it big in Vegas) a registered nurse. My baggage is gone-it's not stored in the overhead bin any more. I am ready to find a true friendship! How about you? I have never acted or felt my age, nor am I about to start now. I am for the same vitality in a man. Love fine dining, traveling, catching a movie or just curling up on the couch. I believe watching the stars come out at night while we lie by the pool whispering and giggling is one of life's little pleasures. If you are anything like me, introduce yourself and share a photo. Unless we take a chance, we many never know what life has to offer ]]>

<![CDATA["I've been described as a bit of everything. Beautiful, Cute, Pretty, Smart, Whitty, Charming, Unique, Funny, Outgoing, Easy going, Fun, Exciting, Sophistociated, Strong, Affectionate, Loving, Honest, Patient, Giving, Caring. All that and I'm really ""JUST"" me. I like boating, snow skiing, racquet ball, long walks, long baths, a day at the spa/salon, shopping, dining out, movies, cuddling, ROMANCE. and sex, sex, sex. Did I say sex?"]]>

<![CDATA[ single fun, nice, decided to post my own ad,, lets see if my photo attracts anyone that REALLY WANTS TO MEET!! 5/6 see the rest, cute face as well gay and happy be single,, be clean Be Ready to talk like Soon, Like Now!! Im off today,, roomate is away,, anyone want to hang/play Clothes optional Bonus,, Im smart to,,, ]]>

<![CDATA[Listen, I just got out of a Three year relationship with the most clingy jackass. I am young, beautiful and deprived. I am seeking out any respectable looking guy over the age of 21 to get me intoxicated, enjoy the night and Leave in the morning. Email me for pix, Do not forget to send yours. ]]>

<![CDATA[Ok, so I have some tickets to the March Meet out at Famoso coming up in the next couple of weeks. Who wants to go? What makes you worthy? The most interesting and fun response, with or without a pic wins...I'll give you details about me and trade pics, but not here...sorry, privacy thang :o) Druggies, losers, dudes looking to get laid, control freaks, women haters, beaters, and general mean angry jerks need not apply. I want to have fun, meet someone cool that I can stand to spend the day with and you have to be able to hold my attention and conversation has to be enticing and interesting. Laughing will be a must, hand holding a definite maybe? You should be taller than 5ft 9, easy on the eyes and NOT rockin' the beer gut (weight/height proportionate please). Smoking as long as you aren't a chain smoker is ok, but I don't smoke, I barely drink and when I do duck...LOL!! Country music is my passion... Peace]]>

<![CDATA[I'm looking for a friend could possibly leve into a intimate friend. I enjoy going on day trips,walking,bbqs,goingout, dancing. I'm easy going,good sense of humor. Not intogames playing.]]>