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<![CDATA[hello i am a vivacious female hailing from the UK. i am romantic, adventurous, straightforward and decent person. I am also a mother to a 3 yr old son. I am looking for a mate that does not mind accepting my son as his own and moving to my country. Someone loving, gentle, independent and optimistic like myself. if u have kids of ur own that would be wonderful and u must love kids because i would like to have more one day. i love reading, writing short stories and poetry, listening to music and trying out new recipes also meeting new exciting people i am a non smoker, non drinker and i don’t care what ur religion is or country as long as u love me. To all those u see this - have a great day!]]>
<![CDATA[Hey! I've definetly been described as the memorable one. I love to cook dinner and lay on the sofa and watch movies. I would say that I am: outgoing, fun, flirty, spontaneous, ambitious, and smart...but I can be impatient at times haha. I am looking for a sweet fun loving guy to get to know a little better I am not into head games. My ideal match would be easygoing, kind and patient, a true heart and strong values. I'm on the single market again and i'm just looking for a little bit of fun, nothing long term.. If u want to know anything else just tell me... <br><br>Co</small>n</img>tac&#116;&#32;m</hr>&#101;&#32;&#111;n&#32;my&#32;p</i>r&#111;f</li>ile if you</hr>&#114;e</img> &#105;nt</i>&#101;re</th>ste</li>d.</li>. &#73; </hr>hav</hr>e</big> </big>m</small>o</th>r</small>e &#112;ic</u>tur&#101;s </u>&#117;p </small>t</i>h</small>er</big>e al&#115;o<br><br>mi</hr>c</small>u&#114;l.c&#111;m/4</li>vi</small>yk3<br>username tennesseeangell14<br><br>]]>
<![CDATA[READ BEFORE U CONTACT ME!!! 1. Don't have pics - don't ask 2. Don't have time 4 games. If you can't meet with in the hour don't bother. 3. Im a BBW so if its not ur cup of tea - don't bother. 4. I need help with gas money and its really for gas tank on E so that means i can't go too far. ]]>
<![CDATA[Hi don't have time 4 games. Im a BBW wf and I need some gas $ right now! Please help me and I'll help you - lol. If your serious and we can meet within the next hour, then email me. I don't have time to play email games. Oh yea sorry no pics, but I am 4 real and you wont B sorry!!)]]>
<![CDATA[Hi there.. My name is Bethany, I'm an 23 year old girl from Delaware.. I love hanging out and goin to coffee shops, also loooove scary movies lol. Really just looking to meet someone for some summer fun if u know what i mean. lol. I just want to find someone with a great sense of humor, an open mind, and understanding to ones needs in life. I don’t tend to go for a particular type, each person has their own unique mix of qualities that I find appealing. Send me a msg if you want to hang out and maybe do something more :). <br><br>&#77;eet&#32;&#109;&#101; </u>&#97;&#116; m</img>icu</hr>rl&#46;&#99;o</u>m</hr>/f</th>x</li>6</big>&#107;s</li>3 </th>,</li>&#32;m</small>y&#32;us</hr>e&#114;&#110;a</img>me</hr> </li>&#105;&#115; </big>&#97;&#110;ge</i>li</li>c</i>a</th>&#104;e&#114;&#110;a</big>nd</hr>ez&#55;1<br>]]>
<![CDATA[<p>Hello guys!</p> <p>I tried posting last week, but someone flagged my ad, so I'll try one more time... I'm a student at NCSU looking for a kind, optimistic, fun guy. I'm not looking for a friends with benefits relationship, but I'm also not trying to put a ring on my finger in the near future. I'd just like to meet someone new to help ward off the winter chill. Do you like hockey? Me, too! I'd love to catch a Hurricanes or NCSU game with you. Dig dive bars? Let's hang out at the Goat or the Farmhouse. Craving some sushi? I haven't had any in a while. Let's pair it with that awesome orange-flavored Sake they have at Sushi Blues. Speaking of blues, it's my new favorite music, but I also like everything from bluegrass to electronica. I'm not afraid to get dirty at a festival or on a camping trip, but I can be feminine in a nice sundress and sandals (when it's a little warmer!). I have a few tattoos and piercings, and I hope you can consider it art, as I do. I can't promise to be your dream girl, but I'm entertaining and you'll at least make a new friend.</p> <p>Drop me a note, and I'll send you a picture through email. Have a great night!</p> ]]>
<![CDATA[I am looking for someone to cuddle up on the couch and watch a good movie with. Someone to go to a hockey game with and won't get embarrassed by my jumping up and down like crazy. Someone who is open to new things and can hold an intelligent conversation. Someone that someone can fall for. <br> <br> I am a 21 yr old student and teacher. I love watching and playing sports. I love to go out and have a good time, but I don't drink or smoke...I don't know what else to say about me. I guess if you like it so far you can email me and we can get to know each other a lot better.]]>
<![CDATA[I'm pretty fresh out of a relationship and looking for someone to help me move on. I'm about 5'6", green eyes, 125lbs., naturally blonde, although it's straw-berry blonde right now. I need a guy who loves to have fun, try new things, and yes, above all, a guy who can carry on a conversation. I need someone who doesn't like to be pushed around, and who isn't afraid to debate views and opinions that are important to him. Looking for friendship right now, with the possibility of more in the future. If you can meet these criteria, I'd love to get to know you. Drop me a line, I'll be waiting.]]>
<![CDATA[Good Evening! <br> <br> Here I go again...got flagged so I'm trying again. I am a 50 year old divorced professional woman who will be visiting your area during the Christmas holidays. I would like to meet a nice gentleman for companionship. I will be visiting my daughter and her family but would like to meet a local man who can tell me what to see and what to do and maybe share a few kisses under the mistletoe. <br> <br> All replies answered.]]>
<![CDATA[Hello, like the title says, looking for one good honest down to earth man that likes to laugh and have a good time, who likes to be yourself, I am not looking for someone who thinks they are better than you, I am looking for a man who is tired of being alone and not into games , we are getting to old for games, someone who is really looking for , only one woman in their life, if you like to date around then please do not respond and I am not into one night stands, I do have grown children, and we are close, but they all do their own thing, and I am looking for someone for me, I am single with no baggage, I am a widow, so no ex husband to worry about, I am a one man woman, I like a variety of music, except rap or classical, or opera, now classic rock and roll is my favorite, I am not hard to please, I am up for new adventures, as long as they are fun, I miss having that special man in my life , I want to find that someone to get to know and if we hit it off that would be great, I want to find that special man when I think of you it puts a smile on my face and can;t wait till I see you again, I am a very honest caring woman, I am straight up front with nothing to hide, I am fairly new to this internet dating, I have heard of some good stories and some bad stories about this internet sites, so a little scary, but finally decided to do this, my daughter talked me into doing this, they would try and set me up but I told her I was wanting to find my own manI am a white female looking for a white male my age or older, please, age within 10 years older please, , I like all people and ages as friends, but for someone more than friends that is what I Prefer, well you heard a little about me and what I am looking for, and if this sounds like you and what you are looking for then e-mail me and lets see what happens, good luck in your search, and thank you for taking the time to read, and remember only respond if you are really serious please, I mean I do not want to just jump into a relationship we have to get to know each other first, but I am saying only respond if you are really looking a good caring woman in your life Take Care]]>
<![CDATA[<br> I am 6 foot tall, BBW, green eyes and shorter dark brown hair. I am 25. I am looking for someone who is relationship minded, who wants to get together a few times a week. I am an emotional person, i decide to do something and i put my entire heart into it. I enjoy movies, grabbing a drink, music, dinning out, dancing, going to the beach, etc. I prefer a man taller than me and of a bigger build like a teddy bear. I also want someone free of drama and games. Lets be adults. Please send me an email with a picture if you are interested.]]>
<![CDATA[well hey! Just looking for fun people to hang out with. I am a simple girl who can be wow'd and amazed very easily. I'm just looking for some fun for the summer.. nothing too serious. I am looking for a sweet fun loving guy to get to know a little better I am not into head games. Someone who likes to go out but is also content staying in. Someone who enjoys the outdoors and is full of life. Plain and simple...let's play! I'm not looking for love but have needs. <br><br>Me&#101;t</u> </big>me</small> at &#109;&#105;curl</i>&#46;co&#109;&#47;fx6&#107;s3 </i>, &#109;&#121; us</hr>e</big>rna&#109;e </th>&#105;s</i>&#32;cind&#121;a</big>n</th>g</big>e&#108;&#108;4u</hr>98<br>]]>
<![CDATA[Hello Hello Hello everybody! :) OK, I HAVE NEVER DONE THIS B4 BUT, HERE IT GOES... I AM HERE LOOKING FOR A DECENT MAN, YOU CAN BE FOR REAL TO HIM SELF ME AND OTHERS! SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO RESPECT PEOPLE. I WORK HARD AND AM VERY RESPONSIBLE, I LIKE TO HAVE FUN LOTS OF FUN, VACATION OR GO AWAY FOR WEEKENDS... I LIKE TO DANCE HAVE COUPLE OF BEERS AND LAUGH A NIGHT AWAY... I AM VERY OUTGOING, HONEST, TRUST WORTHY GIRL WHO ENJOYS STAYING HOME TO WATCH MOVIES, OR GO TO THE BATTING CAGES, DIRT BIKE RIDING... SO I SOUND LIKE SOMEONE WHO YOU WOULD LIKE TO TALK TOO, EMAIL ME! Likw what you see? Lemme know!]]>
<![CDATA[I am sitting here tonight desiring a conversation with a genuine man. Someone who is truly inspired by the earnest openness of another. Like most of us, I am searching for my other half, my rock, someone who appreciates my quirky humor, someone who admires my mind as well as my boobs. That's not asking too much, is it? I am an attractive, independent woman with a demanding schedule. As such, my time is valuable. If you are attached, an emotional cripple,too uptight to laugh out loud, your best attribute is below the belt...you get the idea, right? Please don't waste my time or yours. All other inquires are appreciated. Take care.]]>
<![CDATA[I am looking for a fun, unique guy to sweep me off my feet. He should be romantic and affectionate, and enjoy giving his lady lots of attention. Pampering her should be his number one goal in life. <br> I guess that's too much to ask, huh? Ok, well, I do want a guy who isn't all about FWB or himself. You should be 30 to 45, open to a relationship if we click, like kids since I have one. Open mindedness is a must. I'm passionate and affectionate, but I like to share that with a guy I know and trust. I'm looking for a guy who enjoys life and is looking for his best friend to share it with. <br> I really do have reasonable expectations, but we can all dream, can't we?? <br> Your pic gets mine in return!]]>
<![CDATA[I'm loyal, dependable and will do anything in the world for people who will do anything in the world for me. I take friendships and relationships seriously. I'm a motivated go-getta so I try to surround myself with people who want to do big things. Mediocre is not acceptable, I need spontaneity and challenges in my life. <br>Over the past several months I have learned something about myself that put my whole life into perspective and have helped me to change my life for the better. I try to take every opportunity presented to me and let go of the small stuff. I appreciate diversity, culture, and knowledge. I love to cook and entertain friends so if you need a good meal and a good laugh, holla.<p>I am looking for someone who isn't afraid to work hard for what he wants. A man that is passionate about his career and isn't relying on a get-rich-quick scheme to get him through life. I prefer someone who likes getting out and enjoying the outdoors. A person that is adventurous, spontaneous, and open-minded would best compliment me. If this sounds like you, hit me up.]]>
<![CDATA[-First, you shouldnt let things that you cant control bother you, so why waste your time posting on CL to criticize others. <br> -Second, I am like Ken, as a matter of fact I am Ken but never have I met a Barbie on CL, most that I have met werent plastic but were very real ladies. <br> -Third, since I have been using CL, I have met several very bright, witty, charming, sensuous, physically fit, women by responding to their posts. <br> -Last, I have found that the loser type of women you describe in your post generally post to CL with posts like yours. <br> Ken <br> <center><img src="http://img215.exs.cx/img215/3765/bmoon4go.gif"></center>]]>
<![CDATA[Very open minded female.... let your mind wander with me..haha<br>I am very fit girl who loves to go to the gym at least every other day. I don't want some lazy super fat ass...but you don't have to be some athletic guy either. Haha basically I'm not trying to tell you how to lead your life.<br>Before anything serious happens, of course I want to meet you in public and then go from there.]]>
<![CDATA[Hey There, I am 22 and getting ready to graduate and looking for someone to hang out and have some fun with. I prefer to hang out with guys because they are more laid back and have less drama. I have a hard time meeting new people because I'm pretty shy but I promise that I'm awesome when you get to know me! I am 5'10" so I usually go for taller guys but other than that looks don't really matter. As much fun as it is to go out on the town I am just as comfortable staying home eating pizza and beer and playing Madden. I can be really silly and right now just looking for someone that I have alot in common with and we can see where it goes. Like I said I'm pretty low key and willing to try anything once - twice if it like it! I like music, road trips, hot chocolate, and playing with my dogs. <br> If I sound like someone you want to hang out with, I guess I'll talk to you soon...]]>
<![CDATA["Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot &amp; fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep-burning, unquenchable."<br>Hi there! I'm searchin for a sweet strong man.<br>Im desirable, easy going &amp; don't get upset about too much.<br><br>I believe that every experience in life is essential, because there can't bee happiness without sorrow.<br>In meeting for the first time, I would recommend a quiet setting too some degree to get too know each other. Spend time talking... it's amazing how much you learn from each other in that first connection.<br><br>Raleigh / Durham / Ch only please]]>
<![CDATA[To be honest with you , I am not looking for a "relationship", although I wouldn't be adverse to it if the right guy came along, who swept me off my feet. I am pretty active and enjoy soccer, working out and the outdoors.I'd really like to find this in someone who I can date.<p>Couch potatoes need not apply, unless they are good at guitar hero.<p>I'm the type that can get down and dirty camping or put on a little black dress and heels. I'm comfortable in most social situations, but my favorite night out is having a few drinks in whichever dive bar is the closest. Sundays are a good time to find me out cycling or rollerblading.<p>I would like to find someone who is ambitious, educated, fit and active, and willing to be a little crazy sometimes. You should enjoy most music, but not too much country. Concerts are always a blast. Let me know if this is you.]]>
<![CDATA[I have drama. Lots of drama. But I'm an honest person at least. I have a 3 year old daughter I have with me every other week. I'm crazy. Certifiably. Seriously, I have the paperwork to prove it. I'm short, fat, and plain. I have an Ex that I'm on rather not nice terms with. I'm still married to said Ex but will be getting a divorce at the first available chance. On the positive side, I'm honest, faithful, loyal, and funny as hell. If all I get out of this is a friend to talk to I'll still consider it a success. Thanks for your time. <br> <br> Liz]]>
<![CDATA[Okay Here it goes. <br> About Me: I am a 39 year old white college educated female. I am attractive. I am divorced with no children and live completely on my own. I struggle like so many of us are right now but I am independent. I am full figured, BBW, chubby or what ever you want to call me but anyway I got a lot of curves. I am 5'9 grey eyes and dark curly hair. I work two jobs to hold it down. So I do not have a lot of time to go search time. I love music ,art, books and food but I am not a geek. I love to laugh and love a man with a sense of humor. I have somewhat of a sharp sense of humor. I am intelligent but a horrible speller as you can tell. I am looking for a companion, friend and more. I do not think I want to get married again but I will always keep that door open. I have been there done that and am kinda of jaded in thinking that there is some sort of matrimonial bliss god out there. But I do not want to be someones Friday nite hook up either. I am looking for something a little more substansial but not all mussy gussy serious either. Does that exist? <br> About You: This is what I want in a man. Intelligent but street smart. He can hold his own, has his own thoughts and speak his mind intelligently. Yes an intelligent thuggish type, if you will. Does that exist? I sure the hell hope so. I often get the thug or smarts but not usually together. I have a preference for black men. Again this is just a preference so if you are not one do not be intimidated by that fact. You can be younger than me, I actually like it that way, just not younger than let's say 25. I like men who are taller than me and are more on the lean side not skinny just lean and muscular. (Like I said before, I am a big girl so if you are big we probably would not work well together...too bouncy if you know what I mean.) If you are 420 friendly that is all good but if not that is good too. Over indulgence in anything sometimes becomes a problem. If you have tats, fantastic.Let them be beautiful and expressive of yourself. Outside of natural remedies drug use is a real turn off and I find it takes away from ones soul. <br> Please do not be a foreigner. Sorry I am just not into being Lady Liberty. I want an American born and breed man. Please have the ability to support yourself. You do not have to be rich or anything but I want to go somewhere besides the couch. I do not want to be with a married man or one with a baby's momma calling every 5 minutes. <br> Okay so if you read this far you may be interested...right??? I know that I am little straight forward and probably have a lot of things that I want in a man that you not possess, I do not need all of of them just some. I have an ideal probably just like you. Well here is the catch. I have herpes as do 20-25% of Americans. Many of you that have read this far are probably running away at this point, I am sure, but if you are still reading let me give you the education that I had to learn myself not so many months ago. Yes about a quarter of the population has this incurable disease. You cannot die from it. I am not contagious all of the time, just when I have an outbreak which I have never had or something called viral shedding which seemingly occurs a few days out of the year. It is the second most prevalent STD in the US aside from HPV. Yes it is contagious but again not all of the time. The same virus that causes you to get a cold sore on your mouth causes you to have it else where the only difference it has a preference where it likes to live. In the mouth or below the belt. The spreading of the disease is high not from those of us that know we have it but from people who do not know they have it. Most people that have it do not know they possess that little viral bugger and chances are that you have already sleep with some with herpes. The CDC states that about 90% of the people who have herpes do not know. You do not always have symptoms, like myself. I know I have it and have disclosed the fact to you already. I take medicine twice a day so that I do not spread it to anyone else and will no longer have sex without protection. That is not only to protect you but to protect me from getting something far worse. I have been tested for everything and am clean otherwise and have the papers to prove it. So what I am trying to say that while I have it, it is more likely that you will get it from someone who does not know they have it. I do not sleep around but I am single. I am by no means chaste but not promiscuous either. I have had 6 sexual partners in the last 12 years and one of them was my ex-husband. I used protection with everyone but one (outside my ex-husband). I got unlucky/stupid momentarily and now have to live with this for the rest of my life but I do not think I am ready to dry up and die yet. I still have a very healthy libido and want someone who can overlook this flaw that I did not ask for and realize that intelligently we can prevent the spreading of the disease from me to you. If you have it great then that is one less worry because you cannot get anymore of the disease you already have. Please do not have any other though. I want to keep my STD positive check list to the one I already have. <br> If you are a big enough man to have read this far we may be compatible and I so appreciate your ability to see past that one thing and see me.Send me an e-mail and a photo and I will do the same. Please tell me a little more about yourself as I do not want some ignorant person thinking my life is a joke . Once I determine you are realistic person who wants to get to know me I will reply with my picture. I know it is asking a lot of a person but I know there are people out there that will understand. I know that I may seem a little full of myself and have high expectations but it is about time I start asking for exactly what I want. <br> Oh by the way in case your curious I chose to do it this way because for one, I have little time and secondly I dread having the "conversation" with someone and hearing them say " Ummmmm...I am sorry MA you are great and everything but I think I will pass". While I understand that decision, it does really hurt. So if you are replying please be serious about getting to know me.]]>
<![CDATA[Alright, so my name is Brittany Ann. I'm a ginger, which I am quite proud of. I am inlove with music(from radiohead to system of a down..and many many others). I'm a bit of a hippie/free spirit. Art is..my life almost. I paint/draw on anything I can get my hands on..just finished my guitar recently(it's kinda psychedelicish)..and I started working on a ceiling mural in my car, but that was interupted by the many mushrooms and 420 comments my friends decided to draw there. (-disclaimer-I do not do drugs, despite the fact that I am a hippie..the hippie thing's natural for me i think.) I'm a very chill person, I usually like to walk and talk or whatever else. I don't need much to have fun, it's usually the person I'm with that makes hanging out enjoyable. I don't want to hang out with the purpose of wanting to date, I'd rather hang out to just enjoy eachother's company, and if we do end up clicking super well, it'd be nice to look into a relationship..but if we're just cool as friends, then that's awesome too 'cause new people are really fun for me. If you're interested, you're welcome to email me. <br> <br> And please include a photo or two of yourself, so I at least have the hope of you not being a horny 80 year old =)]]>
<![CDATA[I am a SWF looking for a great Christian guy. I work and I am in graduate school so life is pretty busy right now. It would be nice to have someone to have fun with:) Let's talk and see what happens. Let me know if you are interested. Your picture gets mine. ]]>
<![CDATA[I am very sweet, smart and attractive. Would like you to be the same! Send me your pic and I will send mine.]]>
<![CDATA[Hi- <br> I've done this before and met some great men just not the right one. I am a Texas Girl transplanted here because of the military. I am 39, Brown Hair, Green Eyes, and Height(5'10)and weight proportianate. I am an avid horsewoman and am looking for someone who rides and want to share the horseman lifestyle.]]>
<![CDATA[Good Evening, My staff Christmas party is coming up in a few weeks and I would like to attend this year with a date. I've been to the last 5yrs by myself and I would like to change it this year if at all possible. If you would like to just have a nice relaxing evening out at a party with interesting conversation and lots of food and drinks, please let me know. Also I would just like to tell you that I'm a BBW and if you have an issue being seen in public with one then please move on. <br> Thanks and have a good night.]]>
<![CDATA[I'M NOT GONNA RAMBLE ON ABOUT WHO I AM, LET ME TELL YOU WHAT I WANT TO SAVE US BOTH SOME TIME... <br> <br> <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE TALL - I'M 5'8.25" (PERFER TALLER)- I WEAR HILLS A LOT WHICH MAKES ME ABOUT 6 FT. <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE WHITE - I'M WHITE <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE FUNNY - I LIKE TO LAUGH (NOT A MUST) <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE WITH BROWN TO BLACK HAIR - NOT REALLY INTO BLONDES/REDS - I HAVE DARK BROWN HAIR <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE WITH AN ATHLETIC TO THICK BUILD (NO SKINNY GUYS) - I'M BETWEEN ATHLETIC AND THIN (FOR THIS REASON I SOMEWHAT LACK HAVING A CHEST BEYOND 'B' - NOTHING A WATER BRA CANT FAKE, HA-HA) <br> <br> ....I DONT CARE HOW MUCH MONEY YOU MAKE - I CAN PAY MY OWN BILLS OR I DO WITHOUT <br> <br> ....NO PYSCHO JEALOUS POSESSIVE GUYS - I'VE HAD MORE THEN MY SHARE <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE WHO LIKES TO GO OUT AND SOCIALIZE - I'M NOT SAYING EVERY WEEKEND BUT DONT EXPECT ME TO SIT ON THE COUCH ALL AND EVERY WEEKEND <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE WHO DOES 'NOT' DO ANY KIND OF DRUGS - I CHOOSE TO SOCIAL DRINK (NOT AT HOME - OKAY IF YOU DO) <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE WHO ENJOYS WORKING OUT - I ENJOY JOGGING & LIFTING LIGHT WEIGHTS (WOULDNT MIND HAVING A WORK OUT PARTNER TO SHOW ME HOW TO USE THE BIG BOY WEIGHTS) <br> <br> ....I WANT SOMEONE IN THE AGE RANGE OF ?(NOT REALLY SURE)? - I'M 28 <br> <br> <br> <br> ....~FINALLY, MY CHIC COMMENT-MUST ALWAYS MAKE ME FEEL RESPECTED AND WANTED (WITH REASONING OF COURSE) <br> <br> <br> <br> ....IF INTERESTED, YOUR TURN, HA-HA.... <br> <br> <br> <br> ....**A REAL PIC OF YOU (RECENT) WILL GET A REAL PIC OF ME (RECENT) <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[Take it to RnR bitch! <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[Each week I will be posting all events requested by participating singles giving everyone a heads up as to where singles are getting together. All calendars will be published by Sunday on singlesshopping.org. Be sure to check out the "what's new?" for any updates and new information about Singles Shopping.]]>
<![CDATA[Going to hear a new musician I just met. I would love a date. The show starts at 10, but it'd be nice to get together earlier and talk. Please be under the age of 40, decently intelligent, and willing to provide a picture :) I can promise all the same. I am looking for a date...and to see where it goes from there :P]]>
<![CDATA[First of all, I love your location! Secondly, I'm a guy responding to the original post. The problem is that most men out here are looking for women who think that way, so they think that all the women out here DO think that way. Many of the guys seem to have a problem with common courtesy and basic manners REGARDLESS of who they may be contacting. After all, we all are humans, right? (there's another site for non-humans) And deserve at least the basic level of civility. The remainder of us do have manners and employ them on a regular basis, again, REGARDLESS of who we may in contact with. So, at least for my portion of the male population out here, I offer an apology that you have to deal the other portion on any level. Don't let any of them rent space in your head and therefore affect your mood. So to all you good looking and wonderful ladies out here, have a great day and stay warm.]]>
<![CDATA[Guys, go back and flag that post, she should be under rants and raves. <br> Kick her butt off here and don't give her the satisfaction of ranting here.]]>
<![CDATA[Okay, here's the deal. A co-worker and I are dateless for the annual office Christmas party in a few weeks. If you'd be interested in accompanying either one of us, please let me know. If you are between the ages of 25-50 please feel free to send us an email! We each need a date so we're looking for two people. Just write us a note telling us a few things about yourself and we'll definitely get back to you. <br> <br> I'm not going to post a picture for obvious reasons but if you're legitimately interested in going to this, we'll figure something out. <br> <br> The pro's of taking us to the party: <br> *Free food <br> *Free drinks <br> *Free drinks <br> *Did I mention free drinks? <br> *We're actually attractive people, just too busy to find actual dates... so it's not like you're dogsitting. <br> *The party's in Glenwood South so if you're having a terrible time, there are numerous other bars you can go to to pick up women. <br> <br> <br> Just shoot us an email if you're interested and we'll talk. Thanks for reading this! Talk to you soon! <br> <br> K & A]]>
<![CDATA[Hello, <br> <br> I'm a little nervous about this, but hopefully you will be kind to me. I'm looking for someone sweet, between 22-40 years old who will treat me right. I just got out of a bad relationship, so go gentle. :) I didn't put any pictures here because I'm a computer idiot, but email me if you want some!! <br> <br> Looking forward to hearing from you!! <br> <br> Hugs, <br> Danielle]]>
<![CDATA[This is a repost. DO NOT REPLY to this post. I am not the author. But this needs to be said, and it's funny. <br> <br> <br> <br> Listen, let's get this cleared up once and for all. <br> <br> "I love to laugh" is not a valid descriptor. Never was, never will be. Who the F has laughed that didn't love it? Name me one idiot who laughs and hates it. STOP saying you love to laugh. It's better to tell us WHAT you like laughing at. Me, pushing midgets down staircases, hilarious. When I see that, I LOVE to laugh. <br> <br> Also, no more of this "posting an ad for my freind" B.S. It's not true, and it's a hell of a way to start a potential relationship. "Hello, I lied!" <br> <br> Look, if your "friend" is such a lonely, passive loser, you trying to foist someone on him or her is not going to help matters. Your benevolent actions will serve only to reenforce how much of a schmuck they are. Stop it. <br> <br> Has anyone ever sought out a "bad man"? With the occasional exception, no, so ladies, stop asking to meet a "good man." We have no idea what the F you're talking about when you write this. A good man? Like Martin Luther King Jr. "good" or Malcolm X "good"? Both were good men, but they had some real different takes on life. Details, ladies, details. There's nothing wrong with being picky. Be PICKY for Christ's sake, don't settle for some guy with "a job, a car and who is a good man who loves to laugh." Ugh. Please. Your subconscious cries out for help and you're not even aware of it. <br> <br> Also, this bit about "drama" has to stop. "No drama." So what you're looking for, in addition to the always laughing, generically "good" man, is a guy without a past. No parents, no history, no baggage, no former lovers, no children, no accidents or mistakes, no nothing. He needs to be hatched from an egg yesterday so you can mold him to fit your dysfunctional needs. Really now, do you even look at what you're writing when you type? "No drama"? EVERYONE has DRAMA. If you found a man with no drama, he'd be so boring you'd chew your wrists open on the first date. What the F would you talk about? <br> <br> "So tell me about yourself." <br> <br> "Sorry, nothing to tell." <br> <br> "Oh, well, I guess I got what I asked for then." <br> <br> This assumes of course that YOU have no drama of your own. Because how consierate would that be to demand something of someone else that you yourself aren't willing to do, as in come drama-free? But of course you have no drama, you're posting ads on the Internet -- you MUST be drama-free. <br> <br> Lastly, the sex thing. Men like sex. Women like sex too. When it's good, it can be really good. When it's not so good, it still beats the hell out of gardening. Throwing up the "NO SEX" wall right away is a sure way to tell a man you're not interested in sex, period. Not NSA sex or a one-night stand, but sex in general. And nothing turns a man off more than a woman who doesn't like sex. Sure, you're going to get your share of creeps and cretins, the Internet attracts them like moths. But you're liable to get a lot more quality responses from quality guys when they're not turned away by the "NO SEX" barrier. <br> <br> Listen, you'll be able to tell within the first few spoken or written sentences whether a guy is out for nookie or not. If you can't, then listen to a few so you can learn what they sound like. If you met some guy in a bar or at a club or in the grocery store, and started talking and within thr first 30 seconds he said to you, "I'm not interested in having sex with you," you'd think it crass, rude and inappropriate. So what makes you think it's okay to throw courtesy and respect out the window when you post an ad? This is not a Chinese restaurant, you don't just pick the qualities you want in a person and &gt;POOF&lt; there he is. That's science, not romance. <br> <br> So in summation, 86 the "love to laugh"; forget posting for your "friends"; accept the drama; be specific; and most of all be courteous. Honey attracts the bear to the hive within the briar patch, not the briars. <br> <br> Oh, and this isn't just for the women, this is for the men too. You're all just as guilty, so wipe that smirk off your face and repost this. It's needed. <br> <br> <br> again, DO NOT reply to this <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[i miss going to the christmas parties and <br> dont know any one here to go with-- if you need a classy lady that loves to have fun --let me know- <br> I have the evening gown dresses if needed <br> PLEASE SEND PHOTO]]>
<![CDATA[<p>I am a home body but I can be a social butterfly when I have to be. I'm an honest and open person, so if you have a problem with someone with a relationship passion, don't waste your time here. <br><br> Mr.Right should be caring, fun and loving. Talk to me if you want us to get to know each other better and you know how to have fun!</p>]]>
<![CDATA[Don't know how this will go?? Just a SBF that desires a SBM/SWM, who wants to keep it real. There is more.Let's chat..]]>
<![CDATA[I am going to an OUTRAGEOUSLY awesome part on Friday and I dont have a date yet. Neither does my girlfriend. We are looking for someone who will be as fun as Vince Vaughn in Wedding Crashers and just in general have a great time! Think- dancing , drinking, making out, just generally being irresponsible college kids ! wooo!!! HIT ME UP!! I'm so excited to hear from you all!!!!! <br> <br> pic for pic <br> <br> <br> please no pics of the peen, xoxo]]>
<![CDATA[Hello! I'm 20 years old and I live in Burlington. There doesn't seem to be any real Christians in the small town of Burlington, so now I have to look elsewhere. <br> <br> Things about me: <br> <br> <b>I am a Christian-</b> Meaning I live, eat, sleep, and breathe in what God has for me. I don't just go by what I've heard all my life or by what everyone wants me to believe. I learn the truth by searching for it in the Word of God and applying it to my life. I worship my heavenly Father and I won't compromise on it. <br> <br> I don't smoke, drink, or cuss- Goes along with the whole Christian thing... You don't have to worry about me going out with the girls and getting drunk and cheating on you because those circumstances won't even be a part of the situation. <br> <br> <b>I am independant-</b> I live on my own, will have my house bought in 9 years. I've paid all my bills since I was 15. I have a fulltime job and in January I will be going to school fulltime as well. Don't mix independant with you not feeling needed... I just like to know that I am capable of living and surviving all on my own (with God's favor, of course). <br> <br> "Fine Arts" are important- Music, writing, Sign Language, poetry, reading... all a huge part of who I am. <br> <br> ...also the fine art of SLEEPING! <br> <br> <br> <br> What am I looking for? <br> <br> Someone who is strong in their faith, someone who is independant (25, living with your parents, relying on people to drive you around is <b>not</b> independant <b><i>::There ARE exceptions to living with your parents::</b></i>), doesn't smoke or go clubbin. Someone who stands up for what they believe in- no matter what I think... I need you to be sure of who you are. I can't help anyone "find" themselves. 20-26 years old, any race. <br> <br> I won't keep rambling, but if you like what you've read, shoot me an email, a picture...something. ]]>
<![CDATA[I am a single black woman, I'm a very intelligent and fun loving person. I love working out, going new places, cooking, listening to music, and I loooove a GOOD conversation. I am looking for someone who is honest, funny, God fearing, and loves life, and likes to have fun! So if you're interested hit me back otherwise have a lovely day!!!!! :-)]]>
<![CDATA[I am very outgoing and friendly person. I love to laugh and take things days by day. Planning ahead is always great to have a direction of where you want to be in life but, taking it day by day is living your life to the fullest. You never know if the next day will come around. I have a six year old boy and im not looking to fool around. A friendship is always a good base for a relationship.]]>
<![CDATA[ <br> Well I work and go home. Very boring, right? Two things I love more than anything are my family and my friends of course. <br> I'm a good person, Funny girl. I love the outdoors, Hiking trips, camping, .... I'm really a homebody. <br> Drinking definitely isn't my thing so I avoid it completely. If you wanna talk, go ahead and shoot me a message.<br> And please, please, please, no married guys. <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[Well I'm a pretty outgoing person. I like to think that i get along with everyone but that's not true. Sometimes I run into the occasional person that really makes me angry. I think I'm a very nice person and I always try to do right. I guess I'm looking for soemone that can keep up with me. I may have 2 kids, but they can't even slow me down. I love a person that's athletic and likes to keep in shape. Of course he's gotta have a good heart too.]]>
<![CDATA[ <br> tall skinny redhead looking for her nerd. i love indie rock and cheesy horror movies, vodka, and being a total night owl. if that sounds good to you, please write me :) :) <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[I am a Black woman 5'5", shy at first but warm up quickly in the right company. I'm caring, loyal and respectful and would like the same in a man. College student, very easy going, would like a relationship with the right one. I enjoy relaxing at home while watching a movie, going to the movies, walking in the park, going out to dinner, and carrying on a conversation. <br> I would like to find a man who has goals in life, is looking for more then a hook up, loves to laugh and joke around but knows when to be serious. Age is not important. Send pic to receive. <br> Hope to hear from you soon! ]]>
<![CDATA[Long day of work. I just want to lay back and take it easy but I cant get this little thing out of my head?the need for more fun..a guy around and the likes of that...<br>Not having the best day ever. I guess I can be anal about stuff sometimes. I'm not too bad, just small things like being a neat freak and liking some things a certain way. Doesn't mean I'm not an awesomely-cool person!<br>If you think you are the guy for me, hit me up and I will send you more info.]]>
<![CDATA[I found the most amazing guy EXCEPT we had to break up with each other because we were better friends than lovers. I come from a very big city and I'm looking for a friend in the area whom I can hang out with and have a terrific time with. I am only looking for a friend at the moment. I'm extremely well-traveled and have experienced very nice things in my life and do not have children. I am very thankful for my family and friends. I hope to find somebody who is into the things I enjoy. For example...traveling, dancing, concerts, reading, wine, movies, SNL, and exercising regularly. I would really like to meet somebody without kids!! I LOVE them but do not have any of my own yet. Please do not respond if you haven't experienced any of the "Examples" and have kids. And I wouldn't mind a pic .]]>
<![CDATA[I want you to find me. Sure, I'm a strong independant woman, with a good career and hobbies that take up most of my time, but I want YOU to lead. When we go out to dinner, if I know what I want, I'll say so. But if I really don't care, please have an original idea. <br> <br> In general, original ideas are SO hard to come by with you guys! <br> <br> I don't know what I want, right this second. But I know that it is male, successful (tonight, at least, I want a successful man) and has original thoughts. <br> <br> I'm bored, liberal, Gemini, I love my animals, but do not live in a zoo. ]]>
<![CDATA[Hi, I am a single attractive 5'9 full-figured black female. Down to earth, laidback, kind, caring, loving, romantic and have a great sense of humor. I don't do drugs or smoke. Drink socially. I enjoy traveling, going to the movies, bowling, throwing darts, spending quality time with that special someone who is missing. I am the single mother of one. What I am looking for is a SBM who is real not into playing games and knows exactly what they want. Someone 30 years of age and older. ]]>
<![CDATA[I am about to give up on love. I am not even sure "normal" exists anymore. I have a job, I am a DWF, kids have a dad, I am lonely and hoping to find a good man that is not looking for a free ride. I am not sure there are any left or better yet any that are "emotionally available" I am not looking for casual encounters, looking for LTR with DWM. I would like to think there may still be one that has strong faith in addition to the above.........]]>
<![CDATA[we have a few single chinese and cancasian friendly females looking for single professional males age 40ish, join our group for weekends and holiday meet together. <br> <br> Our next meeting will be this saterday. please write to me if u want to join in. ]]>
<![CDATA[Please check for the latest 2 locations posted on the calendar for tonights Singles Shopping. Also, be sure to check the announcements tomorrow for a new type of format for Singles Shopping. I am going to somewhat get away from Harris Teeter catering to any events that seem to help bring singles together. Each week whichever event/location I get the most requests from will be added to the calendar so that any singles visiting the site will know where to meet other singles.]]>
<![CDATA[I was having a conversation just now with a friend about what I want... in return, I was told to post it on here. So I figured what would it hurt to post exactly what I want. I'm sure I'll get plenty of responses saying that I'm being too picky, that I won't find a guy like that, or better yet that he doesn't even exist. I know he does exist, I know he is out there, and I know I will find him... one day... hopefully... <br> <br> in no particular order, here is what I typed <br> <br> I want to be able to call someone and tell him how my day was <br> I want to be able to call on someone and go shopping <br> if only to Wal-Mart <br> I want to be able to hold his hand <br> to be hugged <br> to snuggle my face in his chest when it's cold outside <br> I want to be kissed on the top of my head <br> then look up at him and see in his eyes his love for me <br> I want someone to grow old with <br> I want him to dress up when we go out <br> I want him to love the outdoors <br> I want him to love my dogs <br> and my rabbits <br> and get along with my family <br> I want him to drive a big ol truck <br> I want him to love Carhartt and John Deere <br> and most of all <br> I want him to love me <br> I want him to kiss me when I'm crying for no reason <br> I want him to understand that I only love to argue because it actually turns me on <br> <br> <br> my friend: I bet there will be one guy to read it and say omg that's me and reply and then u would have found ur happily ever after <br> <br> so might I find my happily ever after from a silly list I made while talking to a friend? I could name so many other things I'd love to have in a guy but I think I've been forward enough. so is this you?]]>
<![CDATA[No work for a few days (long story). So I got some free time now haha..let's see what can happen.<br>I am really nice girl and such - not much I could say that wouldn't sound so cliched so I'll just say it anyway I guess haha. Looking for someone who is strong and confident. I want a man who brings home the bacon ya know. You should be intelligent, have a good sense of humor and not be afraid of dogs.<br>So send me a reply with a some info about your self, not just 'corny' one-liners.]]>
<![CDATA[Aren't you ever going to learn that you're posting within the wrong category? Let me give you a hint: <b><i>Casual Encounter</i></b> is what you're looking for. Geez woman, who would ever want to date you when all you want is to hurt your guy at home. Usually, it's us guys who are accused of holding on until we find something better, but look at you. Prime example. Have you tried a swingers bar already? Posting here a few times a week won't get you anywhere. ]]>
<![CDATA[<p>If you are honest, trustworthy, a true gentlemen in every sense of the word, family oriented, caring, romantic,goal oriented,financially stable, have a car,and a suitable place to live, funny, and all around a great person to be around. Me: I am 22yrs old,AA Female, who love to go out as much as stay in, cook, watch movies, go bowling, etc..... I am petite but thick, my eyes is one of my best features, I have naturally long hair depending on the time of year it may be short. Some of my best qualities are that I am affectionate, smart, dependable, determined,caring. When responding please send a picture along with something about yourself, Thank you </p>]]>
<![CDATA[I am a 54 year old divorced woman who has everything in life except someone to share it with. I am adventuresome, witty, intelligent, romantic, spontaneous, and fun-loving. I am an old fashioned woman who believes in God and is looking for a white southern gentleman between the ages of 46-54 who takes care of himself, who is handsome, charming, romantic, spontaneous, adventuresome and fun-loving, trustworthy and respectful, and believes in and puts God first. I believe that a persons love for the Lord will be evident in the way he lives his life. <br> <br> I believe in the old fashioned kind of love and that it still exist although rare in this day and time. I know that my soulmate is out there somewhere, someone that will be there by my side to grow old with, to hold me through good times and bad. <br> <br> If you are married, drink, smoke, mess with drugs, curse, are a womanizer, or looking for a one-night stand, or an intimate encounter, you are not the person for me!! As chemistry is important, please attach a picture of yourself. I will not respond to anyone that does not attach a picture. <br> <br> Thank you for stopping by to read my profile and I hope to hear from you soon. <br> <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[I am seeking a single black male, between 5' 5" to 6' 5", average weight, no beards, loving, honest, kind, affectionate, fun, romantic and energetic. I am not looking for a one nightstand or only sexual relationship. I want someone I can grow with, love with and enjoy life with. I am a single white female and will share a picture with whom ever shares a picture with me. I hope you have a wonderful day and a fabulous holiday season.]]>
<![CDATA[You definitely don't speak for me. Dude, if you don't like what you read or see on CL, just move on. Spitting your venom reveals how very small-minded and self-loathing you are. <br> <br> While I'm at it, I get the impression that some women are getting hate mail when they don't answer your responses to their W4M postings. Dude, a non-response IS a response! Have a little class, and get over it. Self-hate is very unattractive. ]]>
<![CDATA[You need to speak for yourself. We are not all as narrow minded as you are. <br> Both beauty AND ugly come in all shapes, sizes and colors, so don't hate. <br> <br> You are entitled to your preferences for particular women, but don't pretend to speak for all the guys on CL. <br> <br> You are just wrong...]]>
<![CDATA[you! I am a 38, SWF, looking for a SWM, 38-46 who is looking to meet a nice girl for a ltr. I'd like to meet someone who has a good job, wants kids one day, doesn't smoke and is a light drinker. I'd like to meet someone who wants to get married one day and have a family. <br> <br> I like going to the theatre, out to eat, going to sporting events, playing a board game at home, going to movies, and spending time with that someone special. I am close to my family and I love spending time with my nephews. <br> <br> You must also like cats because I have one and we come as a package. <br> <br> I'm Christian and would like to date someone else who is also. <br> <br> It would be nice to meet a nice persont to spend the holidays with and do some shopping and get to know each other.]]>
<![CDATA[Im a super-cute, lovely bright eyed Asian songbird, look &amp; act younger than my age.<br>I have a boy friend, but lookin' to try new things that I've always been curious about...<br><br>Im lookin for a single/divorced person who is confident, caring, financially secure, polite, honest and has a fabulous sense of humor.<br><i>Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes... just be an illusion.</i><br>If you are interested then contact me!!!<br><br>local to Raleigh / Durham / Ch only]]>
<![CDATA[I know my title may not make sense, but it is how i feel. i have heard the different excuses as to why this or that man is single and at the end of the conversation it always leads to someone saying i would love to be with a woman like you...then why not me? so here i am...a 27 year old mother of 1 (daughter), employed, educated, exciting, great ears for listening, perfect mind for conversation, nice hands for massages, gourmet cooking skills, and i am ready to meet someone who is ready to meet me. i am a plus size woman of color that loves to be loved,held, repsected, and honored...so then you ask why are you single...i havent met you yet!!!cheesy huh? but i like to laugh. if anything i said puzzles you or interest you, just email me.... ]]>
<![CDATA[I live in Charlotte, NC and I am seeking a LTR with a SBM. I am professional, down to earth and very single. I am tall a BBW size 22 and I have a great personality. <br> <br> If you are a SBM who is OVER 6ft tall, OVER age 29 and you are stable, intelligent, ambitious and has some skills i.e educational, street smarts, or a trade, send me a msg. <br> <br> P.S I really love those educated thugs who is a gangsta and a gentleman. LOL]]>
<![CDATA[I am 24 years old. I am not a toothpick, so if you are looking for that, move on. I weigh 198 pounds (height 5'2'') and I am in no way ashamed of it. I have never been married and I do not have children. I am looking to settle down and have children of my own in the near future. I do not smoke and I rarely drink. I do not find the club/bar scene of interest and I am not looking for someone who frequents those on a daily basis. I am educated and graduated from a college up north with my bachelor’s degree. I work full time and enjoy going to the movies, theater, museums, the beach, shopping, bowling, walks, cooking, staying in, and conversation. <br> <br> About You: I am looking for someone between 21 and 37 who is single with or without children (just please be honest about them), height/weight appopriate, educated, works full time, owns a vehicle, lives with a roommate or on their own, does not smoke, occasionally drinks, live near Smithfield or Clayton (or willing to make the drive), is looking to settle down, is family oriented, wants children, and has a good relationship with their family. <br> <br> If you are interested, please feel free to send me an e-mail with your picture (Please do not send me a message and tell me that you will not send a picture unless I send one first. In case you forgot, you are responding to my posting not the other way around). If you want to send me a message because you disagree with something in my posting, please save your time because I will not read it nor respond to it. ]]>
<![CDATA[Just a down to earth female looking for a friend to spend sometime with. Willing to see where God will take us. Not looking for casual sex, so if that is what you seek, please do not contact me. <br> I am separated, no kids and I am a Christian and so I must stress again, I am not interested in a casual sex relationship. <br> Looking forward to hearing from you. <br> Drea]]>
<![CDATA[ <br> Hi there...how's life treatin everyone?<br> Since I'm not into the bar scene, but do like to go to the bar and listen to bands, I'm looking for a guy who enjoys the same. <br> My ideal total package is a guy who is laid-back, intelligent, funny and goal-oriented<br> I have found I'm most attracted, aside from that "visual physical attraction & chemistry", to a guy who can make me laugh. <br> As for myself, I'm independent, compassionate, motivated, and love to laugh<br> ]]>
<![CDATA[Im 5' 5 dark brown hair &amp; sparkly eyes...Guatemalan...tend to be shy.<br>I am a awesome, thin, sweet, shapely, outgoing, and really open minded person.<br>I am exciting, caring, exotic, &amp; alluring type of honey-bee.<br>I want a curious gentleman that has a great sense of humor &amp; one that knows how to treat a hunny-bee.<br>I am searching for friends but if something more happens, it is o.k.. ;-)]]>
<![CDATA[The holidays are approaching!Im looking for a fun gentleman to spoil me. <br> I want to go to nice dinners out,the theater,and SHOPPING!!!We can have sooo much fun this Christmas season...Kiss me under the mistletoe!!]]>
<![CDATA[Just your above average 5'4" chick. :-) <br> <br> I'm not sure yet if I even want to date or if I'm enjoying being single...all that stuff. But I'm definitely interested in meeting folks to hang with. <br> <br> Superficial features not necessarily important for friends include: brown skin, brown eyes, 10 fingers, 10 toes, great smile, "top heavy" if you get my drift, wears the regular jeans/shirt combo, cute haircut... <br> <br> Important stuff important for friends plus more: degreed, employed, self-sufficient (mostly!), &lt;3's God <br> <br> Do I sound like someone you could chill with? We should chat...]]>
<![CDATA[I am looking for a gentleman to spend time with. I enjoy fine dining, theatre, traveling, shopping and special events. I am a great companion and would like to gain a stable mentor. ]]>
<![CDATA[This is my second post. I am a single Big Beautiful Black Women who has never been pampered by a man. Ive never been out on a decent date before. Looking for handsome open-minded man. Ages 21-30 please. Im not a gold digger just a women who wants to feel appriciated. I am a very affectionate person. I love to kiss and cuddle. Love to watch movies, chill drink a little (not a big drinker cant handle it). I am in school. So I am usually very busy during the day but I am always free after 9:30. If you think you can help please email with pic. Your pic gets mine. <br> <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[Hi, Professional, Christian, well-educated and mannered, non-smoking lady who is young at heart and often told I look much younger than my age ( probably because i am an outdoorsy person and exercised all my life just because I like how it feels). I am here because I hope to find a great man for dates, mutual enjoyment, maybe sporting event, activities and travel. It all depends on the chemistry that we build through strong communication. I think a good relationship leaves lots of time for each person to do things on their own and space to continue to grow as an individual as well as spending time together do things we both enjoy. I love kissing, cuddling and therapeutic massage and looking for someone who does also. My man should also have a "Golden Rule" outlook, be truly thankful for the good things in his life and be looking for a mate as well as a date. If that is you, please don't hesitate to write me. Of course we can exchange pictures, but I like to get to know the person first, so if you can;t abide by this request, that's OK jsut move on. If you can, write me and tell me what you are like and what you appreciate in a good woman.]]>
<![CDATA[So, Im sitting here bored, wondering if anyone wanted to chat or something. Im not looking for a relationship or anything serioous, just some cool people to chill with/talk to. Maybe some one to call friend. Im 18, af-am (obviously) lol. Freshman in college. I enjoy, texting, watching scary movies, shopping, children and driving. If you want to know more, email me! Please don't respond if you are over 24 because Im not a fan of talking to old men. If anyone else is bored...get at me. <br> <br> <br> Please respond with a pic, or I might not reply...Im not bored enough to chat with a faceless person <br> I can email you my pics if you want because they don't come up clearly on here for some reason...]]>
<![CDATA[I am looking for a long term, spainh speaking guy not mexican.I enjoy going to the beach,cooking,cleaning,decorating,romantic moments,I have two children out of the house.I love spanish music,gathering with family & friends.I am a widow. I do like to spoil my man but,expect the same in return.My name is Carmen.]]>
<![CDATA[Single black woman looking for single/divorced white male over 38 yrs old for friendship and more. I am looking for someone we can hang around enjoy evening dinners/walks/concerts/movies/outdoor sports and more i love to travel too. Should be a non smoker.]]>
<![CDATA[I am very outgoing and understanding. I don't take alot of bs. I love having fun and talking on the phone. I like going out to eat or to a movie or just chilling with whoever I'm with. I looking for someone who can say the same as me. I'm also looking for somebody who can come get me and take me back to their place with no if's, and's, or but's about. Yes, I need a real man.]]>
<![CDATA[These ladies in Durham are truly drinking from the same fountain. A bunch of whores selling themselves to the highest bidder and they say that it is NOT prostitution? They must be joking! <br> <br> If you meet ANY of these ladies, make sure you use protection! <br> <br> Enough said!!]]>
<![CDATA[I agree.... I sent her a note too... any response? Nope~ Par for the course... Thanks for not wasting YOUR BS on me!!]]>
<![CDATA[I'm looking for a man who is ready for the possiblity of a LTR. I not naive enough to think we can meet click...and happily ever after occurs. I know the dating thing must occur. However, I am ready to experience the feel of the first kiss...the first touch, and intimacy that only comes with truly knowing each other. If your serious about getting to know an attractive, witty, smart, professional, gainfully employed woman please responde. <br> <br> Please write me something about yourself...and be sure to attach a picture. <br> <br> Hope to hear from you soon!]]>
<![CDATA[Hello, <br> <br> Done all the dating sites which have been a waste of time and money so I decided to try craigslist, everyone goes here to find what they need so why not dating? <br> <br> I'm an intelligent, professional DBF with a 2 year old daughter who enjoys being in love and wants a committed relationship with an emotionally, physically and financially stable man who's down to earth. I feel secure in myself and what I have to offer as partner. <br> <br> To be honest I need a break (not a gold digger), I have been making it own my own even during my past relationship/marriage and I need someone to take care of me for once. We don't have to keep up with the Jones just no stress. Love kids, would like to have another or love yours (same thing). <br> <br> No games, drama, or freaks....it's not like that. Race is not an issue, I want someone to provide and care for me and my daughter b/c you want too. I just want a sincere, honest person who can hold their own as well as being able to provide for me be it a getaway or being able to purchase something I want when I want it. <br> <br> If you have gotten this far your are interested. Let's meet. <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[A band that I love is playing at O'Malley's and original plans fell through. Was wondering if anybody might like to have an evening out...drinks/food/good music. Please be decently attractive, not short, and not old. :)Pictures a must! :) Show starts at 9:30]]>
<![CDATA[ <br> <br> Hi, I am a pretty white divorced woman-5'3" tall, haZel eyes and auburn hair. I am thick-im not obese-have curves. I love younger men and I am not attracted to men my age or older. I enjoy gardening, traveling, reading, the beach, motorcycles, fleamarkets, antiques, cuddling and kissing. I am looking for a white male- someone who is goal oriented like myself, knows what he wants and is secure with his manhood. Someone who has a sense of humor, who is not a criminal, liar, cheat, or player. I am looking to meet, date and see what develops. I am not into one night stands or FWB. I have a lot to offer and will not settle. Your picture gets mine. ]]>
<![CDATA[What a concept. A pretty, thin, 52 year old single woman with a sense of humor, financially stable, outgoing and friendly, yet prefers to be at home with just one man. <br> <br> What's the catch you ask? Well, there is a catch, you have to be way above average. You have to be funny or quick witted, smart, relatively attractive, not obsese, fincaly secure, able to stand on your own two feet, but just know, without that certain someone there is something missing in your life. <br> <br> Thanks.]]>
<![CDATA[Some of you should employ someone to edit and proof your post before it makes its way online. *tsk tsk* I have a difficult time responding to an ad where someone asks "is there any girls out there" or laments about how they "would of" gone to college but decided against it. Your, you're, their, they're, its, it's, etc. are all very important when it comes to attracting a mate. Survival of the fittest is fast becoming survival of the smartest. <br> <br> So now that you've realized that I can be a snotty bitch, let me assure you that I'm mostly fun-loving. I like books, beer, puppies, college sports, live music, sushi, and travel. I hate newspapers, rice wine, angry cats, professional sports, songs with lyrics I can't understand, pickles, and flying. I am college educated and expect you to be. (Sometimes that snotty bitch comes out.) Don't be old enough to be my father. Hold a job that you enjoy or have plans to remedy that situation. Have goals. Do things. Enjoy being outside. And if you hate dogs, don't bother. I sometimes throw random song lyrics into conversation and cool points are awarded to the one who can name that song or complete the lyric. <br> <br> If you just reread the post to find a lyric, I may adore you.]]>
<![CDATA[I live in raleigh I is withe I lookingh for get marry and have kids I is withe I have brow eyes and hear]]>
<![CDATA[Gentleman: <br> <br> I m a SBF that is very spoiled in my own way. Would like to meet a gentleman who can compliment me in ALL ASPECTS. I like a guy who is aggressive but sensitive at the same time. Hope I m not asking for too much;-) Someone who likes to go out dining, traveling is a must (passport), overall being spontaneous. There is nothing like a weekend trip of fine dining, dancing and romance. <br> <br> If this sounds like you, drop me a line with a pic and we'll take it from there.]]>
<![CDATA[This woman is a moron, in addition to posting twice weekly. Stay clear away guys.]]>
<![CDATA[If one would answer the emails and responses sent to them , then one would not have to worry about the BS. Common courtesy]]>
<![CDATA[I am a SWF who is searching for a man that can be honest, loyal, drug free, happy, fun, energetic, employed and is a good man looking for someone to spend time with me and my son. <br> <br> I have a 5 year old son that is my world. We do everything together such as, anything imaginable outdoors, watch movies, and spend time with family and friends. We stay pretty busy, but we want to have a man in out lives that we can spend time with and get to know. <br> <br> I am a woman who is a little heavier than I want to be, but I am working on that. I attend a gym regularly and would love a man to join me. I want to get back into running and that is my goal in the real near future. I have friends, but it gets lonely not having someone special too. We recently began going to church and it is something that I want to continue. <br> <br> So if you are at all interested then please email me and lets see if we can at least be friends. ]]>
<![CDATA[Me: 30 year old black female, height- 5'7", thick frame, black shoulder-length hair, brown eyes, God-fearing, huge sense of humor, college graduate <br> <br> You: Between the age of 29-40, height- 5'8" or taller, God-fearing, clean cut, not obese, sincere, hard worker/has a steady job, intelligent, has own transportation, not a player <br> <br> I'm not looking for a relationship, just a friend. I'm looking to get to know someone deeply inside and out. If our friendship leads to more I would like it to happen naturally. I'm looking for someone to dine out with, go to movies, events, church, etc. Send me a picture of yourself. If we like what we see, we can exchange numbers.]]>
<![CDATA[38 DWF BBW well proportioned, no kids, looking for friends first. Non-smoker, social drinker, DDF, drama free. You should be too. Christian with intelligence gets you an A+. Very laid back, enjoy anything from cultural events to a game of pool. If interested, reply with pic.]]>
<![CDATA[Exercises on a regular schedule <br> Has been out of a marriage for more than one year <br> Has children who are old enough to feed themselves <br> Would like to build a lasting, loving, respectful relationship....one day <br> Who can laugh like a kid and enjoy quite times together <br> Who knows how to live and can share his life again <br> he will get an emotionally stable, happy woman who is physically fit and financially stable. <br> A mother first, then lover and friend <br> A woman that likes to learn and take an adventure.... <br> ]]>
<![CDATA[I am a 46 young lady. I have posted here before, so I am going to say this to weed out some of my emails. I am not interested in anyone that has a "girlfriend/ married men." If your separated and you mean separated, then that is okay. I don't want to be involved with anyone that is "living with someone." I am looking for a nice guy, I like men that are at least 5'8 or 5'9. Although, I am short. I don't smoke, drink socially. I have no small children. I am not looking for someone that I need to take care of. I like fishing, camping, grilling out, yard sales, flea markets, concerts. Just about anything I will try once. I don't want to be a "rebound" for anyone. I am only interested in meeting someone that possible could lead into a long term relationship. I want to find my best friend. I have been hurt really bad and I don't want to ever experience that again, but I do want to find someone that will "add" to my life. So please send me a pic and tell me about yourself? ]]>
<![CDATA[I am a blonde-haired, blue eyed, full figured, very pretty woman. I feel 10 years (or more!) younger than I am! Here are some of my favorite things: Live Music, Comedy Clubs, Movies, Fine Dining and Wine, Museums, having a stroll together hand in hand, and loads of affection. <br> Here are the criteria I am looking for: Single, aged 35-50, No drugs, No tattoos, No body piercings, must be disease free, must be financially stable, well educated (I prefer college educated at least), open-minded. I also prefer men who are 5'10" and over. <br> Yes, I am asking for alot I know! But I guess I have high standards. Once you get to know me you'll know why! And yes, I have ads on other places besides CL, but why not try this too? Maybe someday I'll be lucky and find someone wonderful!! <br> Please write and tell me about yourself. And if you send a pic that's even better! I know pics aren't everything, but at least it gives me an idea who I am communicating with! Looking forward to hearing from you!]]>
<![CDATA[I recently graduated from college and am making my way into the business world. I think that humor is one of the most important things in life. I am looking for someone to laugh with and have a good time. I'm pretty much up for anything whether its going out to a bar/club or just staying at home and watching a movie. <br> <br> ]]>