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<![CDATA[You looked so classy sitting at the bar alone drinking your cocktail. We met eyes a couple times. I should have said hi, but my mind was somewhere else. I hope it didn't seem like I was staring at you from across the bar, but you had this beautiful distant look in your eyes. I was wearing a gray jacket and had short crazy hair. Maybe next time?]]>

<![CDATA[She's my ex and she knows I'm gay.]]>

<![CDATA[your turn...]]>

<![CDATA[with all do respect"YOU ARE VERY SEXY well I just wanted you to know Ive never gone up to anyone and said that before but i must indulge and say it onr more time whomever you are YOU ARE VERY SEXY!! 1111]]>

<![CDATA[Hi I saw you alone at Rplace on the third floor looking around. We caught eyes a couple of times. You had on a black shirt with black jeans I was with my two friends dancing. I had a small pony tail in jeans and tell me what color sweater jacket to know its you. i wanted to come up to you but chickened out. If your out there and interested say hi :)]]>

<![CDATA[You may think you've fooled me, you may think you've fooled your friends, you may think you've fooled your peers, you may think you've fooled them all, and you may think you're still foolin' em. At the end of the day the only one you've fooled is yourself. I NOW know the truth, and He and you know the truth and the only one you've fooled is you. You've cheated yourself out of love, family, respect, dignity, peace, happiness, companionship, health and ulitmate healing. It's the beginning of the road to recovery, grace and forgiveness, if that's what you choose, but for you, maybe there's more yet to lose.]]>

<![CDATA[I played you a song beacause I love the way you look as you walk. You asked me if I was scared. I was not. xoxoxo]]>

<![CDATA[I try to fill my mind with things Anything, something, filling And pushing The thought of me, and you The truth is That I don’t know what the truth is That it seems like you were perfect for me In every way, not just some… not just The sensible… but the more The accidental, the pieces that cannot be made to fall into place The intimate, the fitting together, the… That I miss the most The thought of you wanders through my mind Like it, love it, and I hate it so Because when it comes down to it I only wish I would find someone just like you But then it turns out that I only wish That it were you ]]>

<![CDATA[I was standing on the corner of the street... You were driving a black Cadillac making a turn, not wearing a shirt (blush). I was wearing a Burberry shirt and leggings. We made eye contact as you were driving past. You didn't come back... I wish you had.]]>

<![CDATA[I was very intrigued by you. I would really have enjoyed having some time to talk, but the setting and the company made it difficult. I regret not making a greater effort. I hope I have another opportunity. Dave]]>

<![CDATA[Saying goodbye to the tundra will be easy. Goodmorning rainforest beauty.]]>

<![CDATA[The other day you told me about someone we both know who posted on here and we had a good laugh, so I know you read these and I hope you see this one. Anyways, today when you came into work to get your check you were devestatingly gorgeous, I saw you blush when the guys started with the cat calls. You know that I like you, a lot. You are incredible, I mean really perfect. Getting to know you these last few months, mostly this past month, has been a breath of fresh air. I can't believe anyone would ever break up with you, everyone talked about how your recent ex is a douchbag and sense he broke up with you I would have to agree. I'm glad you realize you are too good for him now. A lot of guys like you I know, but I feel so special having you by my side when we are together. Even if we never progress our relationship, which I hope we do, thank you for restoring my faith in women in Olympia. You are so sweet....]]>

<![CDATA[I wanted to talk to you, but you peaced out. Wearing the jersey and black hat.]]>

<![CDATA[today is one of those bad days when you think that everything is gone array. I know wishing and hoping is not going to do it. fairy tales is making me crazy, keeping the faith is not easy. and thinking for me can be dangerous, I guess learning how to let go has alwaz been a problem for me soo, i'll chalk this up as tired, too many horrormones, so off i go to aunt flows I go...Yes I admitt I miss the intimacy, but I do have a good listener he's cute and black and hairy, he goes where I go. where was i going with this I dont know. Just want someone to know that there special and I have missed them very much, and to take care and stay safe and Love yourself. It helps. ]]>

<![CDATA[bought you a drink and talked to you briefly,you were brunette in a ponytail, thought you were absolutely beautiful]]>

<![CDATA[Elizabeth, my angel. Today on the 2k Games livestream, you fulfilled my fantasies of 13 years by heralding the arrival of Duke Nukem Forever, and in return I will fulfill all of yours. We will make passionate love atop a bed of Duke Nukem T-Shirts as the Megadeth cover of the Duke Nukem 3D theme plays on endless loop, and I will do anything, absolutely anything you want. Tired of dealing with the neckbeards at PAX? Give a real man a call. I wanna fucking go crazy with you. You are so fucking hot, leave me a voicemail. I am so fucking into you, it's incredible. Let's get crazy, get some coke. I want to lick your pussy and make you cum so much. Let's do it. You are so fucking hot.]]>

<![CDATA[Attractive fit smart cultivates his/her talent confident happy with family, job, career makes you feel special sees spirit in all things Repulsive out of shape complainer never and/or always goes out rage-aholic/addict always broke and/or focused on money misogynist, bigoted, etc.]]>

<![CDATA[KTCL and Silk started the most amazing journey of my whole life. I came into a world full of love that I never even knew was possible before. Yet, along that same road would be rocky with deciet and lies. Pain that made me doubt my own self worth. Two became three and them four and the blessing jumped to five. With anger brewing a huge mistake was made...so tired of being hurt over and over, everything was done. I know that you don't care and I respect that but I, I hurt. I miss my love, I miss his kisses and hugs, I miss being held and I miss being touched by him. I miss being a family. Once you are a soulmate - and you are most definatly mine- regardless of what went on, it stays. So, my love will always stay with you and you will always have angels to protect you. You are forever loved by me. --M]]>

<![CDATA[You gave me my tall white mocha and it was delicious. : ) We talked about music and what you're doing for school. Wish we could have talked more but there was a huge line forming and didn't want to be a distraction. Even though there's a low chance, I hope you see this. I think your name is Karl or Kyle? Has anyone ever seen this guy? Is he even gay? Don't want to hit on someone whose straight. : P P.S - Your jeans looked amazing on you. : )]]>

<![CDATA[I was in the older chevy at the stoplight, you came from the other way driving a 70's Ford 4x4, I pointed at your truck and you smiled that sexy smile of yours. Was that your truck or your boyfriends? Hopefully yours. If ever interested in 4x4ing or just meeting up I'd be interested.]]>

<![CDATA[Concert - Slayer. Back bar area - I mentioned how hot it was to see gorgeous ladies at a concert. Pointed at u and said hello. You mentioned you were flattered - being 41 and told she was beyond gorgeous. Contact me :)]]>

<![CDATA[hey dude, u r really hot and very masculine. u seem like a very cool guy. u r from the midwest. let me know where r u from so that i will know u r the one i have a crush on. hope you see this ad.]]>

<![CDATA[Peeking from caboose...girl, you are beautiful]]>

<![CDATA[I doubt you will see this but on the off chance you do, I saw you crabbing again today- this time sans child. I would really like the chance to get to know you. If you see this which i doubt you will (but a girls gotta try!) I would love nothing more than to take you out for coffee...]]>

<![CDATA[I have faith and I love you, too! Tell me how to get my act together - Is it to believe in us? believe we have a future? to trust ?? I want to leave the past where it is.... I can't go back to it! I don't want to! Tell me if that is a start - ]]>

<![CDATA[What happens on the 10th?????? ]]>

<![CDATA[Is this really you, Duane? It's Rose, friend of Tina. Call me at home. I have her number.]]>

<![CDATA[Sweetheart, I hardly have a saggy ass. Don't know many 24 year olds who have saggy asses yet, although since your prowl the gym and look for I dunno, whats your age criteria at least 10 to 15 years younger than you I am only guessing pleanty have seen yours. Yea, you played me but I learned my lesson, no more married women at your age. The younger the fresher is what I know. She and I don't need any of your luck, we are diggin into something you couldn't. After all you were married so how far could it have gone. I'll keep you in mind though if we don't work out. I'm sure Hubby ain't all he used to be.....lol. Isn't there some sort of pill for that?]]>

<![CDATA[You were there with maybe a boyfriend buying shelves? Black capri leggings with a low enough rise to see your hips, red string around the waist and flip flops. Tan skin, the perfect big round ass and a white tank top, tight and well filled. Hair pulled back in a tight pony tail. You were the hottest thing I've seen in years!]]>

<![CDATA[Does this original post come from or go to 15th? This sounds painfully familiar.]]>

<![CDATA[You called it off, suddenly, abruptly, a year ago. Yet you keep sending me fake emails, pretending to be someone you're not. Why? What do you care about my looking to move on? About my life? Why mess with me? If you can't get me out of your mind, can't forget about me, then contact me. Tell me what's going on. But playing games is for children and it makes no sense. So, please, grow up and contact me honestly or leave me alone. Aren't you supposed to be all about honesty and integrity? Please. ]]>

<![CDATA[You are the tall stunning blonde I talked to right before I left the rink. I would love to talk to you more.]]>

<![CDATA[I have patience. We belong. I have so much faith in you and your ability to overcome. I love you.]]>

<![CDATA[Hey it's duane my other phone got destroyed give me a text numbers the same ]]>

<![CDATA[sept.10 you might want to move to higher ground. I love U 2]]>

<![CDATA[Hey/Hi, I purchased a black shirt tonight around 8:30. I want to kiss you.]]>

<![CDATA[I've seen you a few times there. I've asked you a question once but you didn't seem to know the answer. I just thought I'd let you know that I think you're cute. Have a good day. (:]]>

<![CDATA[You know who you are, theres a slim to none chance that you will respond let alone read this. Just gotta get something off my chest. The day you left, my heart literally shattered to pieces. Without saying goodbye or farewell. Now I only wish I get the chance to see you again. AH. I thought saying goodbye to the guys at work wouldve been hard should the day arrives that I quit, now im realizing saying goodbye to you is something I was never prepared to face. I could give you a million reason why I WISHED YOU STAYED but the pages on this posting is too short, but if you really want to know why I wished to god you stayed here, drop me a line, i could go on for ever. SP]]>

<![CDATA[I know you may never receive this message. But I saw you a few weeks ago at Ride the ducks. You wore sunglasses with a blue shirt and were with a friend. ]]>

<![CDATA[You were walking down Phinney street with your sexy eyes and sweet smile...I was wearing a white sweater, on the phone, and laughing. I'm sorry i didn't stop you but you were with two of your friends. If you remember me, give me a shout! ]]>

<![CDATA[i walked in to the gas station on wednesday afternoon with light grey hoodie on and short brown hair up in a ponytail, you were behind the counter ringing me up, i loved the smile you gave me when all i did was hand you the gift card in my hand and didnt bother to tell you what pump number i was at. i caught a glimpse of your name tag, Matt... you are so sexy... i left to pump my gas, then came back in to go to the cash machine...i wanted to say hi, but you were busy helping a lady with her kids.. i would love to talk or see you again..]]>

<![CDATA[Wow. I was in my head space, preparing for a meeting. I need some caffeine. As demonstrated, I'm not good with conversation with strangers. Especially not cute ones... dressed up?... that keep checking back at me. Wow.]]>

<![CDATA[Handsome stranger that approached me. Oh, you enticed me so. Fresh ink across your arm. When I ran my fingertips over each letter...oh, it set my soul on fire. The moment we touched. A casual bump.. You stole something from me. My heart is all a flutter. This flame is too hot for me to bear. And now you've disappeared. You're a whisper on the wind. You're each person I see on the streets. But you're gone. A cancer in my heart and in my head, you're consuming me. How is it even possible? I barely know your name. I want you with all of me being, yet I have no idea who you are. What magic is this? Give me back myself! I hope you dream of me, oh.. because I do so dream of you. And you promised that we would meet again. Don't make me wait. It's this wondering that is making me go insane. Tell me that you hate me, tell me that you never want to see me again. Tell me anything but nothing. ]]>

<![CDATA[We met 15 years ago and have been friends up until a year a go.Would love to reconnect.]]>

<![CDATA[you were a blonde fellow in short, shirt and sandals walking your dog up Belmont hill Friday evening the 3rd. my little dog didn't seem interested in yours. I'm buzzed, glasses was in levis and a green t. Maybe we could connect and see how the dogs get along over coffee? ]]>

<![CDATA[Hey man, saw you at the gym tonight and i could not resist looking at you. We made eye contact a few times but I could not keep the gaze because you were making me hot. we had a quick moment in the shower but you seemed rushed. if you ever want to get together let me know. ]]>

<![CDATA[YOU WINKED AS I PAID... THEN AGAIN IN THE PARKING LOT... YOU HAD GREY HAIR AND VERY CUTE... SHOT IN THE DARK HERE... BUT WHO KNOWS.. (-:]]>

<![CDATA[I was with my mom and dad. Why were you smiling and watching? Just curious.]]>

<![CDATA[To the chick in the plaid dress and heels, you are amazingly beautiful. Just thought u should know :) ]]>

<![CDATA[Your name is Chris, I met you today around 1:30-1:45. Tell me what exercise we talked about...]]>

<![CDATA[You asked if the bus went to Lake City, and I said yes. Of course I should have talked to you more, you were pretty darn amazing... I said something to you as I left the bus, you waived as I watched the bus go bye, bye. Would very much like to meet up if you see this. What did I say to you? Hoping you'll see this!]]>

<![CDATA[Thank you very much for the kind words! I would sing it to her from the rooftops if I thought it would make a difference. Sadly it won't. I just put it out into cyberspace to calm my own mind and begin another step of healing. I love her more than I ever thought I could love anyone. This one will never go away I fear. Thank you again for the kindness, it made me smile for a moment that someone appreciated it.]]>

<![CDATA[For imaseattlewoman - I'm interested.]]>

<![CDATA[Sitting right across from me, what a sweet and beautiful smile. I should have said hello. Hello. ]]>

<![CDATA[You know who you are. I'm looking for you. You in your green Ford Focus. Me in a black BMW. The meeting place was the Costco parking lot.]]>

<![CDATA[I couldn’t help staring at the stack of books in your arms. And the way you browsed the B's made me hold my breath. Now you’re gone and I’m kicking myself for not saying hello. Then again, I’m a bookstore, so talking is hard for me. Please tell me you’ll meet me online for a 20% discount. I’ll be waiting at Powells dot com slash missyou.]]>

<![CDATA[you were tall handsome guy in the rover. I left after being too intimidated to go in the theater. Any interest in a home movie instead? We made eye contact in the parking lot as we both drove off. ]]>

<![CDATA[LAST Friday afternoon (aug.27), you helped me get my car serviced at the auto shop at Sears...You dark hair and thin, etc... I commented on your belt and we made casual chit chat, really got the feeling something else could have happened. Me; silver subaru, blond hair... find me]]>

<![CDATA[You come into my place of work almost daily and we've become rather friendly. This past week, I even met your wife. In that we're both married, I don't know what the chances are of you reading this...but just in case you are, I find you extremely attractive & charming and would not be opposed to elevating our "relationship" one or more levels. Coffee or a drink maybe? Tell me where I work and my name...here's hoping!]]>

<![CDATA[I know this is a shot in the dark but what the hell. i came there with my two little brothers today and we got girl toys so i asked you for boy toys. you told me i got some girl fired and i smiled at you. i didnt catch your name but i thought you were really cute. i came back to try and get your number/ice cream but you were working in the grill :( if this is you and are interested hit me back and ill send you my number.]]>

<![CDATA[And the tiniest of sweaters. You were like a scene straight out of Mad Men in that dress, had to quickly look away to avoid any semblence of staring. It is the workplace after all. Certainly no connection was missed, but just wanted to say that dress looked stunning on you. ]]>

<![CDATA[I know I just let you pass cause I'm polite. But I also wanted to get a look at your body from behind. I love older women And I go crazy for older women with big asses. I'm not sure whether or not you caught me staring at your bouncing cheeks, but if you ever want some company. I would be happy to supply it. I was wearing mostly dark colors. And my hair looked messy.]]>

<![CDATA[you were/are sitting across from me. cute asian), a&f shirt, on laptop. hi!]]>

<![CDATA[FYI... the same would hold true for a woman that cheats.. if the emotional isn't given by her husband there is usually another man that will step in and fill the void. We all crave someone that makes us feel like we count. Thank you for your honesty!]]>

<![CDATA[You were having your picture taken as you were running Thursday afternoon (around 7pm) and I came running up next to you with a friend of mine. You said you wanted to run with me.......I wanted to run with you. Can we say hi again? I would love to know you.]]>

<![CDATA[You changed your hair. I haven't seen you in a while, you looked great! I'm way to old for you anyway, to bad. I love to see you. It's the only reason I shop there. ]]>

<![CDATA[You helped a middle age man find his elevator around 9:30am, I was walking near you and overheard you giving him directions. You wore black tights, professional high heels, and a grey top. You have dark curly hair and a great smile. I just can't get you out of my head. We had a short (but good) elevator conversation about the three Starbucks in the building (we both had coffee). I'm kicking myself for not taking the initiative to introduce myself and ask you out. I hope I run into you again. I wore green/grey plaid shirt, jeans, and white scuffy shoes. -]]>

<![CDATA[you ARE,weather your playing games or NOT,its seems like we ment to be together, i ll wait , untill i see you really need me,cos i like you and i ll be the for you, the more you take you time the more you make it harder for me,you cant play this stuff on me,,,, i wait,,,but if the is no connection,i ll just go with the other girl....]]>

<![CDATA[Up there at the top of the hill, right off 15th. You know who you are. My thoughts and feelings for you have not diminished. I love you. I absolutely love and adore you. Soul and spirit. And please know this; that the fact our paths may never cross again still has me afflicted with sorrow. I cannot seem to heal and want desparately to understand the gravitational-like pull you seem to have on me. I know I may never have an answer. Be happy, and know that you are cared about from 20 miles away. I will continue to respect your privacy and promise not to complicate your life in any way. Shine On, my friend.]]>

<![CDATA[Fill me with excitement and happiness...the way it's meant to be between two people. I look forward to the next time we meet! Till then...]]>

<![CDATA[To the security guard at Union Bank. Thank you for opening the door for me every Friday when I come in. It's very sweet.]]>

<![CDATA[well said. i am a woman that became involved with a married man. before i get hammered for that, i didn't know. yes he withheld that little tidbit of information initially. our friendship was emotional more than anything else. i laughed at his silly jokes...well, he was funny! he'd tell me about his day...and i payed attention and cared. he's an amazing person and i always wondered why he strayed (that is of course once he told me he was married...ass! sorry just had to throw that in) anyway, from my experience from a woman's perspective...you could not be more correct in what you said. oh, and i am referring to the heartfelt post...not the spam post that is going around.]]>

<![CDATA[Saw you at Liberty, but had an appointment that I'd forgotten about, and had to run. You were driving a white pickup. Would like to hook up again.]]>

<![CDATA[This has been popping up multiple times and seems a sad attempt to mimic a true confessional. The vocabulary, phrasing, and lack of male perspective makes it very much seem like it was written by a woman. Take any advice therein with a grain of salt. So, from a male perspective; Do men cheat because of alack of sex at home? No, not always. And yes men will use this as an excuse to get the mistress to put-out. However for the wives out there worried about whether their men are going to stray, it is often due to a lack of intimacy at home. And no sex does not equal intimacy! Think about it, if you are not even listening to your husbands, let alone laughing at their lame jokes that you've heard a thousand times, asking them with real concern how their day went, doing activities they like to do just so that you can spend time with them. If you show more disdain than empathy when they get sick, or injured, don't even consult them for their thoughts before making household decisions, you are already losing them. Where do women go to pour out their emotions or for support when they are down or frustrated? they go to their girlfriends who embrace them with empathy and concern. Where does a man go when under the same duress? He sure as hell doesn't go to his buddies, he too goes to his girlfriends. This leads to an emotional bond between them that no longer exists in his life at home. Will it result in sex, most likely. Men always want sex and women mistake sex with intimacy, so the intimacy of supporting him emotionally naturally leads to it. Look around at your husbands emotional support system. Chances are he has sacrificed any long lasting deep male-male friendships for his relationship with you. That means unlike you, he has no-body else he is allowed to rely on for emotional support other than you. If you aren't giving that support, he will look elsewhere for it. His intention may not always be to bed the woman, after all there is still a good chance he loves you and doesn't want to hurt you. The heart needs emotional companionship and compassion and he will find it somewhere else, and lets face it, women are far more likely to be compassionate. So do yourselves a favor and don't fall for the "all men are cheating lying bastards" routine and that they only stray for variety or due to sexual urges. You may be providing your man with all the sex he could want at home, and you may fool yourselves into thinking that he is shallow for straying after you were providing for his physical needs therefore you can't possibly be in the wrong. Are you providing him for all the love he wants at home (and by love, I don't mean lovin)? Your man wants to maintain that illusion of being the provider and not needing emotional support. Admitting that he needs more compassion and hugs at home isn't likely to help his ego any, so you are not likely to hear him ask for it. At least that is my take on it. Of course this is coming from a man who's wife stopped caring many years ago. Not a day goes by that I don't find myself searching for someone to relate to emotionally. I didn't always realize I was doing this subconsciously until one day I stumbled into a caring intimate friendship (that never got physical, BTW), and then that friendship ended for obvious reasons. The loss of that warmth so suddenly made me realize how how much I need it and crave it, and how I can never have it with my circumstances the way they are. It is a cold dark hell. So take the time to hug your man, it may do wonders in keeping him loyal.]]>

<![CDATA[ Mr Troll, please go find somewhere else to play. Underneath another bridge perhaps? I am trying to establish communications with someone. Yes,this is a deplorable forum for attempting to do so. Bravo on today's performance. He said he "felt like an Idiot and an Asshole" today after rushing to meet you and then what was awaiting him there. He is very fortunate that I am 3000 miles away as I would have slapped him. No,I would slap the both of you. Was that event staged for him to see? To drive him away? Yes,we monitor his email and the daily reports and notes.They have been both entertaining,saddening and full of hope as a part of the after action because of the stroke and accidents,et al. We have not ridden a roller coaster ride like this with him ever before. We have never seen him be even remotely insecure. You actually were our best hope for him that we have seen in the 27+ years that have passed. You were quality. Now even we are terribly shaken by today's event. You must feel something down deep in your heart of hearts for him. Something that keeps you bringing him back. Is there a spark? What can be done to fan it to flame? His heart and feelings for you are patently obvious through his emails to you and what he states in his notes after giving you roses and when chatting with you. You know how giving and caring he is to a mutual friend from your own eyes. Do you not want all of that for yourself? He speaks to you from his heart. You are deep within his heart. You obviously read these emails as you know by his rules you must make the next step. I am going to recommend that he continue as if nothing untoward occurred. What does your conscience say? What does your heart say? You introduced him someone very significant and "relatively" close to you recently. You told him of another close relative's reaction to a simple phone call. Those are things a woman only does when seeking approval from those people at the beginning of a relationship. When are you going to begin to be serious? How many more missed opportunities will it take before you realize your mistakes? Must he be gone or otherwise out of the picture before you understand what a mistake you made? You haven't given him a simple hug, held hands or chanced a kiss. You have never gone to lunch or supper,to the motion pictures or simply sat and looked at the stars together. "Work" is a garbage excuse. You use it on him because he knows overworking. I still feel very strongly about the suggested drive through the scenic area's of your state together. I am beginning to assume you have no real interest in him beyond the upcoming completion of his promise to you. What will occur after that? Are you humoring him? Do you think he is deficient in some capacity? You couldn't be more wrong. But how could you possibly know? It is not as if you have bothered to give him a chance. As my oldest granddaughter is saying, "You haven't taken him for a test drive". As pedestrian as that sounds it's true. It is true that I am a very old woman who has seen the best and worst of people and defended and prosecuted many over the years. He is one of my best friends and is almost like a son to me. So I want only the very best for him. That seems to be you. We are trapped here waiting for you to realize that. You're missing out on the unconditional love you'll never know. Yin and Yang, Rene Your morning gal made quite a series of statements to him a couple months ago. You need to ask him about that. Get it out in the open.]]>

<![CDATA[You'd better not be talking about tapping my saggy ass one more time, cuz I'm not sure if you've turned around and looked in a mirror, but that is one ....saggy.... ass. Though the rest of you makes that totally insignificant and yes, I would (have) dropped everything. Good luck, you two.]]>

<![CDATA[I miss you so much. I thought this would get easier but it hasn't. I just wish you felt the same. -S]]>

<![CDATA[You were wearing tight denim shorts and a black top you also had dark hair you smiled at me on the way out and all I could say was Damn if you see this and are interested let me know]]>

<![CDATA[I was hanging out in the basement, I did my work I was flying high above then something happened I got a lil Crumb and my head stared to spin out of control Back down I went! I pulled myself off the floor again And then another lil crumb I waited...... nothing Waited for that once in a life time fairytale that I guess was never Mine to have. This big girl need to put the past behind her and start Living in the present again and be true move on from the past what if .......as much as it hurts Just know I do care and love U I want you to be happy more then anything and I hope U R ]]>

<![CDATA[You were on the 545 around 745 or 8 this morning. We sat next to each other. You were drinking a coffee from Uptown Espresso, and nibbled on a cookie. We made eye contact when you first got on the bus, but we didn't talk the whole ride. Then, when you got off the bus you smiled at me while the bus drove away. You were tall, slim, blonde, and blue eyed. You were wearing a light blue biking shirt. Would like to maybe get together for some coffee or something. Let me know what color I was wearing so I know it's you. Hope you see this. ]]>

<![CDATA[Really, you where cool, and Raphael (Tony?) wasn't half bad either but your "wing-man" was the worst one ever. I actually thought you where cool based on the conversation we where having before 'wing-man/tard boy' went and got lippy. I even intended on hanging out with you, gambling and just generally having a good freaking time. But your friend...What a looser. It's no wonder Raphael isn't going to get fucked, tonight or any other night for that matter... as 'wing boy' seems to think that women are only good for their pussy or their sucking ability. Last time I checked this was not a porno this was a night out on the town and supposed to be a good time. Instead your married friend had to go and take it there. (Really?! What the fuck does he care since he's married anyway!) HAD he NOT been such a fuck up your friend that was going to Afghanistan or whatever line it was you where trying to use on me might have actually gotten his a$$ like he wanted, Just not from me. Did you know that if you are around another woman that you are 63% more desirable to women? Did you know that a man that has a woman around him in a friendship kind of relationship is 50% more likely to be approached by other women? AND that number increases if that woman with the man is what other women might consider a good looking woman?? I'd actually love to get to know you Donatello/ Silent Bob dude... You where mature and seemingly easygoing. Apparently 'wing-boy' thought I was leading you or your friend on. Sorry about that, Not sure how that happened since Y'all SAW my freaking wedding ring within five minutes of meeting me. I'm sure you remember me... we should network your landscaping business and I'll annoy the hell out of your a$$hole friend. ]]>

<![CDATA[DT...My always MC. You asked and here's the truth: You already know I was unfaithful and yes, I am sorry beyond words but I can't turn back time. I acted selfishly, childish and just plain fucking stupid. You wanted to know the real reason's men ( myself ) included cheat and all our little lies. I'm only telling you this DT, because I do love you still and hope that other women see cheating men for what they really are. So here's the truth honey and your not gonna like it: 1.) My big lie to my new friend was...I never get sex at home. I'm in a cold, lonely meaningless realtionship. This baby is the #1 lie we cheaters use. Of course I got as much sex as I wanted at home( well not always ) but mostly, cheating was a bonus though. Non threatening and if they started telling me things like I love you, you need to leave your family you need to tell your wife. etc. etc. etc. That would usually be my key to get out of this one. If I told you how many other dudes I know use that same line and it works almost 100 % of the time you would be blown away. The reality is we could tell a woman anything and there is no way for her to know. Maybe we see each other in secret spots or have set times when we can be together. The truth is I could have had sex with my Wife 3 hours before and just taken a shower. You would never know the difference. You would never know if I was in a loving realtionship or a cold one at home. truth is you wouldn't really know if I was even married if I never took you to my house, which I would never have done. Cheap Motels, your house anywhere but my house. I had to much to hide from you as well as my Wife. After all I cheated and was dishonest....why would I be honest with you. I mean really, think about it? I was a liar to save myself. Your willingness to fall in love with me just meant I secured you as my Mistress even more. All I had to do was buy the occasional little gift or help you out in some other way and you were happy. I know you thought wqe would have a future but it was all about something different ( Sex ) and someplace else to go other than home. Make no mistake I care for you greatly and that is no lie but at the same time, I knew there was no future in us but I lied and made sure you thought there would be. We have to keep you hooked with what ever bullshit we can. So yes, I'm a liar, cheat and was not a good person but you asked. Everyman I know that cheats operates the same way. Lie about home to get you to feel sorry, lie to you about you to keep you locked in and buy a little gift and pretend we are soulmates. So DT, there it is. the basics of cheating and trust me honey...we all do it the same. Lie to suck you in, lie to keep you sucked in. If everything goes right we could have you long term but at some point we have to call it off but hopefully we can stretch a few years out of it. I once had a friend who was really good and had the girlfriend for 7 years. Perfectly happy at home, but extra companionship and sex....he was the master and she never knew otherwise. I'm very sorry to have done this but again you asked for reasoning and I told you I would eventually put it down on paper for you, so here it is. Direct from me and it's all the truth. Next time you have a man you believe to be married hit on you...ask him this. How's your life at home with your wife......his answer....refer to #1 above. That's what you will get, thats what we all say. It sucks but at least for me I realized too late of course but how much I was hurting my kids and my Wife who were nothing but supportive of me and more than loving. We had a great life, my ex and I, great sex, fun times but I was a selfish prick who wanted it all. I was too late in realizing though and I will pay the price with my family forever. I'm sorry D. I'm sorry I liedd to you and sorry I stole 4 years of your life. Leading you on to believe we actually had a future. I am so sorry.]]>

<![CDATA[You smiled at me as you went into bank of america on Pike, I was lost in thought and missed smiling back at you. I went into a yoga store and looked at books when I left you were half a block in front of me and missed me wondering how I could get coffee with you. I ran another errend then walked up the hill looking up I saw you eating a cupcake and you were lost in thought or going through a book it was half a second and I thought it was nice to see that woman with the wonderful smile again but best not interupt her cupcake heaven. I went to the stoplight and was lost in thought again. I walked passed NWFF and thought I heard someone behind me I looked and it was you. I can be friendly but that was unexpected and threw me off my balance. we crossed intersections in different ways trying not to notice eachother. You checked your reflection in the mirror of a building window. All of it was quite fun. Lets say hello.]]>

<![CDATA[There's a specific reason why this conversation can't be made in person, or by email; meaning it can only occur here. But you wouldn't know about that. Question: Do you know who I am? Could you identify me walking down the street? Didn't think so. And you know nothing about the relationship "from the start"; nor the nuances that have encompassed it since. They say art imitates life; and they don't write stories this good. ]]>

<![CDATA[Wow... to have someone write that to you would mean the world to most women, but it might be better to send it to her in person or she may never know!]]>

<![CDATA[I believe your name was Katelyn or similar. You came into a studio with your friend, you had some cute workout clothes. I was in the process of buying some art and you gave some helpful advice and you had good taste. I introduced myself but was too shy to ask you for your number before you left. I would love to chat with you again. BTW, I did get all those pieces :) ]]>

<![CDATA[If his name starts with "K" you are not alone.. you aren't the first and I'm sure you won't be the last to feel this about him!]]>

<![CDATA[While you do what? Continue to sleep with him in the same bed you and I chose together? Is this really you saying that? ]]>

<![CDATA[What assurances does the passenger have that his original destination will be arrived at, should he re-board the bus; and that he won't once more be thrown under the bus instead? I'm certain the passenger has learned a very valuable lesson; but has the driver? ]]>

<![CDATA[I always feel so empty. And yet, I am always so anxious to come back for more. I alter my life to fit yours and you treat me like garbage. And yet, I still come back. Except I think this time will be different. ]]>

<![CDATA[Let's just get this straight. Where I live, if a marriage breaks up it is not just the man who is entitled to get involved in another relationship. Sorry to damage your stultified, obviously very fragile male ego but sexual happiness is not limited to men only, creep, and simply because a woman has had more than one, even two partners does not make her a "whore". Monogamy work when no one cheats on the marriage - including you. Quit whining. Additionally, if a partner is ogling at everyone in a miniskirt and thigh-highs - that person could be considered "whore".. I miss you too, but what works for the goose, works for the gander..]]>

<![CDATA[You got on the #8 same time I did, we both sat in front, you all in black, beard, could not stop sneaking peeks at you!!]]>

<![CDATA[Neither of those are mine. Active to you: Re:WTG, WMIEFY, ITHFAL, RE:FLG, ATYTT, HTATJC, IHNL, 365RW, Re:365RW. I doubt she's looking at you the way you would feel she is. Something she said last night gave me the impression she feels that, given the chance, I would still run to you. If she's looking in your direction (which I hadn't noticed), she's probably wondering just who it is that has had such a strong hold on the heart of the man she now cares for. Ironically, I'm now beginning to understand how it was that you had initially entered into something you thought would go nowhere, and then instead found yourself becoming more attached instead. I almost forgot how people have this ability to grow on others. As to my love for you, it has always been true; but for some reason it never works out for me. I'm just not what one would consider successful in my aspirations; too complacent, I guess. And my love has also been severely strained and pushed to the extreme limits of my abilities, by being continually forsaken and sacrificed for being guilty of no more than wanting to understand all of this. You know that I did too love and care for you all along; my relatively minor personality flaws notwithstanding. Also, are you telling this has all been a bluff? A test of some sort to gauge my love and devotion for you? To be strong enough to endure the nightmare of those first 2 months would have had to involve me becoming the opposite of what you'd always loved about me to begin with. It would have taken detachment, and indifference. It's been easy to feel that way about other women who truly didn't matter - but not you. If I hadn't cared for you, then I wouldn't have cared at all about what you did. If I truly hadn't loved you, then I would have kicked you to the curb - instead of the other way around. And as to Christy, did you ever correct her; or did you just sit back and allow her to run with it? You knew the truth. Lastly, it's hard to know what MySpace poem you're referring to, when apparently you've removed me. Has this all really been a test? I may have my strengths, but you know I'm just not strong enough for that. Ironically, I'm stronger now than ever on account of what the two of you have put me through; but it may have come at the expense of rubbing off some of the surface shine of my good nature. I still want to trust others now; but I'm severely shell-shocked, and afraid to do so. ]]>

<![CDATA[I heard you're sick. I think I am too because I miss the only part of you that's not. We are not so different. Even though we will never cross paths again, your voice haunts me every day. And you're missing out on the unconditional love you'll never know you had found.]]>

<![CDATA[YES I did expect that! YES YES YES]]>

<![CDATA[ Clarice - that is what I heard your friend call you. You and her were shopping at the Kenmore St Vincent de Paul. Your image and name has stuck in my mind. You are tall, blonde, attractive and are one of those women that a guy will just stand taller when around. I am easily taller than you. Not likely this will generate a response. But tis worth a try. ]]>

<![CDATA[Healing from what?]]>

<![CDATA[hey what's up? i couldn't help but notice that you were missing for a few day. if you know who i am i'm the guy who usually buys 4-5 boxes of donuts for my work. hopefully that will give you a good clue as to who i am. if you do see this, you know where i work.]]>

<![CDATA[I don't know how to make you understand but I'm starting to think you just don't want to believe it so I'll leave it with this: When the rain is blowing in your face And the whole world is on your case I would offer you a warm embrace To make you feel my love When the evening shadows and the stars appear And there is no one to dry your tears I could hold you for a million years To make you feel my love I know you haven't made your mind up yet But I would never do you wrong I've known it from the moment that we met There's no doubt in my mind where you belong I'd go hungry, I'd go black and blue I'd go crawling down the avenue There ain't nothing that I wouldn't do To make you feel my love The storms are raging on a rolling sea And down the highway of regret The winds of change are blowing wild and free But you ain't seen nothin' like me yet There ain't nothin' that I wouldn't do Go to the ends of the earth for you Make you happy make your dreams come true To make you feel my love I love you lady, I dream of you often...which is kinda weird. I never remember my dreams.]]>